Ok, so I have known this girl for a long time and we built up a great friendship... but now I am starting to like her but I don't know how to take it to the next level. Lately she has started to hug me lots, she txt me which she doesn't usually do and agreed for me to take her surfing... I will be taking her surfing about an hour away from where she lives but 10 mins from where I live, should I try get her to stay at mine? Are there any fail safe routines or techniques to find out whether she wants the same as me? Please remember there is a great friendship at risk here but I really do wanna take things further with her... Hope someone can help!!! x

I think she has started to consider you a "great friend" lately. I mean, this isn't the movies buddy, she's not going to fall for you just because you've known each other for a long time. On the contrary, she will group you in the "Safe" box.

Try to make a move on her, that will tell you exactly how she sees you.

And you have to decide : "great friendship" or "something more". It's one or the other, not both.

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I agree with don 100 percent.. Make a move to see how she feels.

Try this: if done correct it will create attraction

At a point when you guys are walking, innocently say "hey there's something on your ass" she'll say "where". you say "I'll get it" and just begin brushing her ass off with your hands pretending to wipe something off. In another 30 secs say " Its still there(with a smile). An begin brushing her ass more. Don't stop until she catches on and playfully pushes you away. Just laugh an say " there's something on your tits too" an just pretend to reach. She should push you away again... That'll change the whole interaction. You have to do it confidently though.

Excuse the vauge description, I'm sure you'll nail this one tho