Saw a girl for fourth date last night. Hadn't seen her for 3 months. Went well in the bar where we sat down for a few hours over a bottle of wine. Ended up with my arm around her. Then her walked her to the station with my arm around her.

As we said our goodbyes I surprised her with awkward kiss on the lips.
I immediately got the sense I'd made a mistake. I then made the mistake, OMG, of
saying sorry. She'd expected a kiss on the cheek. As we said good night I didn't get
good vibe.

I kissed her on lips as I thought it's the fourth date so I better do it.

I'd like to see her again.
After the end of the third date and some texts messages not resulting in any date, a friend suggested it was time to 'move on'.

But this 4th date seemed to go well. I'll send her a text in a few days, but not ask her out I as think she really will be busy, and to just test the water.

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Been a swinger for 5 years and now going to more normal parties. Read Tony Clink and Neil Strauss's books. Find that they are useful and would like to go further than just chatting ladies up and getting their email addresses.

Why wait a few days? Text her today..

Text her this " you looked like a better kisser than that :p" -

She'll try to prove she is a great kisser and then your in

If she brings up the kiss, "I don't regret anything that I did. Could've used a little help though from your end. " should be your reply.

And text her,ASAP. You don't want awkwardness to linger.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "