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Alright, sounds like she's throwing multiple shit tests and you keep failing them. Sounds like you're being to needy and NEVER put down her boyfriend! here what you should do..

As much as it sucks, it's time to play the waiting game, stop asking her out on dates, stop texting and don't call. You guys will see eachother at work so it's ok to talk and flirt a little bit. but the most important thing here is PUNISH HER. Don't bring up her BF at all, just pretend that you two are co workers and she likes you and you think she "alright." She will break down eventually and remember why she gave you her number and and send you a text. You might even be at work when she starts saying stuff like "why haven't you called me!" this is a shit test!!! reply with something like

"well why haven't you called ME! Im not the only one with a phone that makes outgoing calls ya know" (funny playful way)

She'll start giving you reasons and probebly say that she been waiting for you, thats when you PLAYFULLY call her out on the bullshit.. you must do this playfully or she could get very offended. Say something like..

"well i relized you have a boy friend and I don't want to ruin the perfect relationship"

She will start putting down her boyfriend so you won't have to, in fact, the more you back him up, the more she'll put him down your also DHV here. She'll start saying that it's no where near the perfect relationship and stuff like that.. They always do, i said that to a girl who was in a 4 1/2 year relationship and still started putting down her boyfriend. NEG her, not her BF.

Anyways she'll eventually break down and thats when you make her chase you, have her work around your schedule. Say something like..

"Im going to the bar this friday (or where ever) and I'd love for you to tag along."
If she says she can't because she busy say..
"man! that sucks! It would've been real cool to hang out with you outside work.. oh well, I guess I'll see you tomorrow(or when ever your next work day is)" then walk away or hang up the phone!

If she says she's busy, she probably is, but THIS IS A TEST! she wants you to start picking at her schedule and try to set a date up, women feed on this. You must feel like you are the one who is being nice enough to invite her out with you! It is you who she's chasing and not the other way around and she is lucky to even be talking to you!

Anyways, I hope this works out for you, make sure to get back to me post again if you need any help or advice... I ask for it all the time! Thats what these forums are for!

Good luck!!

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Have no fear, life is too short for that...

Just set you mind to believe : " She's full on into me and
i know I could get her easy, she's just another chick".

If you keep treating the situation like that, she will start realizing that you are getting over her and will then chase you.

If you have her on facebook and she doesn't say hey on chat, then dont worry over that ( She probably wants you to say something first, and if you use to say "hey" first all the time, then it will start driving her insane if you stop)". And if you can, don't reply if she comments on your status's or pictures, keep the convocations for work for the time being.

Look at "straw-man technique" in the routine forum ( i think it is)

I'm in the same position as you a lil bro haha, but i had one of my other pick up artist friends knock scene into me haha. It happened 3 days ago, and she already getting worried.

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BrownieSafa

okay thanks guys, I will keep you updated. Yeah, i haven't spoken to her since we parted ways on Thursday. No calls, texts, or anything. I'm obviously gonna see her at work tomorrow but I'm going to pretty much ignore her like I often do at work. I might talk to her a little bit, but not much. I'm thinking if our lunches are set together, might it be a good idea for me to even tell her 'no' I can't have lunch with her, I already have plans? Make her realize that my time is precious and I have other things to do? I don't want her to just assume that I'm gonna be there to have lunch w/her just because she doesn't want to be alone. How long you think the waiting game takes because the job is temporary after all? A couple of weeks maybe? Also, I only put her boyfriend down once and after that, all I say is I don't want to hear about him, but I'll stop saying that too. I'll just use those lines like "It must be great to have a boyfriend who fulfills all your needs". I hope this doesn't backfire in case he actually is the perfect bf. I'm intent on getting with this girl. I have other ones though I'm gonna occupy myself with for now and cool on her. But like I asked, how much time you think it takes? And when all my coworkers give her all the attention, will I stand out even more?

Thanks for all the help.

Well heres what i did a few weeks ago :

I was at work early and was opening up the doors to let people in when they came to work. I knew she was working, so i made sure that i was gonna open for her.

Lucky me, there was another girl that worked with me that was waiting at the front door with my target. I payed attention to the non-target ( "hey, how you doing, i like your hat" etc...) but kinda treated the target like " I don't wanna really talk".

I could tell that made her worry a lil

Work went on and she was on the same floor as me ( i work in a retail store selling surf cloths so there are 2 levels, I don't know if thats the case for you). Normally i would flirt and tease her but in a playful way. This time, when I went up to the counter where she works, i would not really make convos...

Anyway , I went on facebook later on in the day when work ended, she sends a chat message straight away:

Her : Hey

Me: Hey

Her : was something wrong today, you seemed different, it was up setting me

....

After that day she kinda ran after me


As For waiting game, it depends on the girl, but yeah usually 2 to 3 weeks.

and for Boyfriend destroying . You really don't have to worry about him being perfect. Think of it as when you see a movie preview and trailer, the preview makes it sound awesome and 99 % of the time, it crap. So for instance, Your the previewer and Trailer and he is the movie .

I Hope this helps and goes well. Apologies for my explanation skills.

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BrownieSafa

Okay I will do my best. I completely ignored her today. I didn't even make eye contact. I pretty much acted as though she didn't even exist. I really hope this works. She's a very innocent, quality girl so I hope this will work on her as well. I'm sure it's just the AFC in me wanting to just chat her up and keep teasing her. And you guys are sure she'll notice I'm not giving her the time of day? I'm gonna keep doing this and hope it works.

I really appreciate the help. I'm gonna get this one.

Never put the Bf down, she will come to his defense. It is more productive to exaggerate their relationship, in your case saying something along the lines of" wow you guys really be inseparable like the kind of couple that goes to the same college! when can we expect kids?" Then she will say something negative about him unless she has that really good kind of relationship with him in which case you may want to eject gracefully. the whole point is to get her to start talking crap about him, then you may feel free to drop a subtle idea at this point, don't be to abrasive.

you were being needy and indecisive. When a girl ask you where you want to do she wants you to show dominance, telling her something like "anywhere you want to go" is pretty bad, never suggest movies/dinner. Always say something exciting and NEW. In this situation I would have said something along the lines of "This Friday i am going to go ice skating, you can join me if you would like." telling her to go climbing is you biting into her reality, her frame. You need to bring her out of her world and into yours. As a general rule always choose the location you want to take a women, never be taken. If you don't have something of the top of your head, anything is fine. I often state that we can go ice skating if i have nothing in mind, then think about where I want to go later. when I go pick her up I just take her to the new location, she will forget all about the ice skating. this allows me to get my logistics down. Always be in the frame of This is where I am going that day, you are welcome to come but i will be there regardless.

Careful being too mean to girls giving them the cold shoulder could REALLY turn things the shit, there is a certain art form to it.

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If she is going to spend more time with you don't punish her for that. only punish her when she does something that pushes against your boundaries of if she fails a compliance test. Honestly dude, if you have not started kino its probably too late. would she be conformable walking arm and arm with you or holding hands at least? because if she isn't comfortable holding hands/playful touching with you by your day 2 you are in damage control zone.

Honest advice go meet 10 other girls sounds like a case of oneitis.