So I had a party at my place Saturday night. It went very well. Had a good conversation with a chick got her number and called the next morning. She told me to call at 11am because she had church in the morning. We talked briefly she said after work she might go to a movie with her little sister and would probably make it a short night but "feel free to text me whenever you want" a clear ioi right? so I text at around 8:30 with simply "so how was the movie"

Now it's 1:30pm on mon. and no response yet. So i am a little worried.

What next?

Side note: my brother knows this girl and says she has a BF who moved away for school. far away... im in ny he went to Louisiana.

You're already needy and haven't accomplished anything yet. Sure she says "Text me whenever you want" but that doesn't mean you should.

You said: "How was the movie"
She read: "Hey, I have nothing to do today(DLV) so why not wait till the movie ends and ask her how it was"

Next time use some humor and get some real interaction going rather than acting like her dad.

ok fair enough. so what should i do now? maybe text her tonight? something with humor i guess, any suggestions?

i would recommend waiting a few more days to show u dont need to text her and see if she contacts u. but if she doesnt contact u or u just wanna text her now u should say sumthing like i saw someone who looked exactly like you today!(showing intrest in her) i went to walk over to say hi then reliased they where homeless haha (neg)

this way your maken contact first which DLV but your negging her quite hard at the end showing ur not gonna say just nice stuff and she cant rely on u to always be there to text u and to be nice

thats just my advice man i cud always be wrong

I'd say wait 24-48 hours(next time) and do what A-team said. Although it's been a few days now, has anything happened since?

definitely wait a few days if she doesn't text you back. then call her up

edit: if you have her on facebook, random add some cute girls, and talk to them.... you might get a 2nd girl that will help you be less needy and maybe one of them will post on your wall once and a while which will dhv/create jealousy.

I definitely agree, good advice. You came off too needy and now it's time to play the waiting game. I know it sucks, but you have to wait it out. After a couple days and still know reply send her a nice text opener.. heres a few.

-"Hey there knuckle head You know you are the most annoying person to get a hold of! haha.. anyways..... I have some VERY interest news...."
(this ones good because you neg her.. call her out for ignoring you, but in a playful way and now she really wants to here what interesting news you have to say!)

-"I have some horrible news... Aliens are coming to earth to take away all the cuties from our planet! You should be ok, but I just wanted to say bye "
(That one's just plain funny and it's got a NEG... I can't take credit for it by the way)

-"Wow, I just made you look at your phone for no reason... I got you on lock down! "


This list goes on and on of silly playful text openers, but once you've opened with a playful opener, keep the whole conversation playful. tease her! make her remember why she gave you her phone number. make her remember why she likes you! good luck and i'm sure things will work out

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thanks for all the advice. im not wasting my tie with her n e more i've moved on. got a number close last night :)HB7 having a little more success I think She was pretty drunk though lol heres the text. from today

me: Hope you got through the night ok without me

her: yeahh whos this

me: well how many guys did you give your number too last night!

her:idk lol! but i dont have numbers on top of that cause its a new phone

me: new phone cool, i just got a new one last week i stepped on mine anyway this is brian ur sister almost beat up my friend and I got a guy to buy you a beer

her:haha i remember you!! yeah she does that alot what can i say lil sis has my back

me: lil sis has ur back haha thats cute,my friends wanna go out tonight i might take the night off and workout instead, u gonna be out?

her: idk i kinda have the worst hangover ever didnt help that i chugged a bottle of wine on the way home

me: What? Why? lol ur fuckin crazy but kinda cute so i guess i can deal with it:) but hey im a lil busy right now im gonna hit you up later, by for now mallory!

any suggestions on how to continue this! lay them on me

[quote="Vic316"]thanks for all the advice. im not wasting my tie with her n e more i've moved on. got a number close last night :)HB7 having a little more success I think She was pretty drunk though lol heres the text. from today

me: Hope you got through the night ok without me

her: yeahh whos this

me: well how many guys did you give your number too last night!

her:idk lol! but i dont have numbers on top of that cause its a new phone

me: new phone cool, i just got a new one last week i stepped on mine anyway this is brian ur sister almost beat up my friend and I got a guy to buy you a beer

her:haha i remember you!! yeah she does that alot what can i say lil sis has my back

me: lil sis has ur back haha thats cute,my friends wanna go out tonight i might take the night off and workout instead, u gonna be out?

her: idk i kinda have the worst hangover ever didnt help that i chugged a bottle of wine on the way home

me: What? Why? lol ur fuckin crazy but kinda cute so i guess i can deal with it:) but hey im a lil busy right now im gonna hit you up later, by for now mallory!

any suggestions on how to continue this! lay them on me[/quote]


stop texting her (EVEN IF she texts you back, kind of doubt it tho)... wait a couple days then call her up to have a conversation, don't compliment her this early, and don't cuss anymore.