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I am most interested in getting one night stands and as fast as possible. How do you guys go about it?

Last time I got one was maybe a month ago. I went out to the bar alone, since none of my friends was in mood or had obligations, it was Saturday night and I am not staying home. So I was just walking thru the bar and glancing around till I saw this hb7 checking me out. She looked me right in the eyes. I immediately turned around and went towards her. All in slow, controlled, confident manner. She was on a step above me (but still not taller) and she leans over because she knew I was going to say something.

Me: Why are you staring at me like that? You know, you can look at me, that's ok, but don't stare at me... Nobody likes to be stared at...
I don't remember what the fuck she said after it was a month ago or more, but she was justifying herself to me, while simultaneously constantly shit testing me to see If I were congruent with what I was saying.

I was standing there for 5 minutes talking with her, Dunno what got into me when I play the hard to get role I get talkative cause it's easy to just spout shit after shit.

"Yes, you were starring at me, and look, you're doing it now. Oh come on, you're going to make me uncomfortable, and we just started to get along."

She tried with harder shit test and I just held my game, because if you roll with something you roll with it till the end. I refused to turn my body to face her until she let go of first, and made a movement. An IOI, if you would say it. That lasted 5 minutes, the she introduced herself. Girl was one year older than me, studying law, knew a friend of mine who also studies law.

She shit tested me hard there on the friend, saying he's very boring and uninteresting. He's heavily into politics and with his talk he might not interest some people but he's my buddy, I hang out with him, therefore he's not boring and shouldn't accept someone saying that he's boring. Otherwise a cool guy and a great imitator. I didn't attack the girl because she was degrading my buddy, I just overly complimented the guy saying he's smart and funny and acted like it's her problem that she finds him boring. She complained that he held long speeches on college etc. I teased her for being a lazy student.

This isn't important story how much it's important to not eat her shit in hope you will please her more that way and therefore get closer to her pussy. And it does complete opposite. If I said: "Well, you're kinda right, sometimes he's not the most interesting person", or anything more like that I'd fucking bury myself in her eyes.

I kept talking to her there being more close to her now and I took her to a seat that was just behind us. I talked there with her, kino escalating. First the hair, then some arm touching, then I backed off telling her teasing her more, she made some remarks about me getting closer to her and then I upped the game telling her that I am definitely not easy and that I do not give on first day with overly serious face. She laughed like shit on that one and I just kept a dead straight face and told her: "You may laugh but I am serious. You don't even have to try."

After some more talking I ask her does she want to kiss me. I like making tensions like these on girls. She stutters something which was not a defined answer and I tell her there's only one way to find out and go for the kiss. No resistance and it turns out heavy make out for like 15 minutes, where with time I gradually start moving my hands over her body, slowly improving to her breasts than some slight gentle pussy touching.

I go and ask for a walk. And my walks usually end up in my car. She refuses. I talk to her more, we get to know each other better, she says some shit she's leaving tomorrow, cause she was from outside. And then another 10-15 minutes of making out happens.

Then I try again, this time with more style. I'd really like to go on a walk with you and get to know you better since you're leaving tomorrow and you will be sorry after :). She complies than asks her friends. I ask her friend If I can borrow her, she complies. Then they do some safety shit between them.

Walk didn't last more than 5 minutes until we get to my car. She was making some remarks before when I tried to take her out for a walk on how she is not sure if am not going to kidnap her or some shit. She got to my car and the backseat windows are darkened, and she immediately starts busting my balls for having a molester car. Then I start teasing her about how she's gonna get kidnaped but that it's going to be the best experience she ever had, till I sell her organs. She makes some resistance upon entering the car and I give her my car key, teasing that now she might choke me out and drive me away.

after 15 minutes of foreplay people are walking by the car and I am banging her there.

Then I return her to her friends and I call 3 days after she picks up and I try to arrange some meeting with her (she lives about 200 km away from me) but she makes bunch of where she is going to be and what she has to do and that she will have no time, and that I have to wait untill october, etc. some bullshit. Then I tell her to call me when she's ready and Since than I haven't heard of her.

In the meantime my fucking mobile phone got damaged and I lost all my contacts, but my number remains the same, So I can't try that epic "I've had crush on you for years" genious lines I haven't seen anywhere else.

"Yeah, but every minute with you was like a year". This is so hilarious It'd make me shit my own pants while telling this.



This one night stand took me about 3 hours. I want something more faster. I want to be picking few girls a night, and I think I am certainly capable of doing that, I just have to get practiced.

Also this was an indirect opener which I rarely use when I go for one night stands. I usually use shit like "I want you" and stuff like that. It rarely works, and when it works, most of the time it gets me as far as to making out with women. Rarely do I get fucked the same night by direct opening. I must be doing something wrong.

SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES! What are your approaches? How do you lead your conversations? What kind of body language do you project? Are you more aggressive? Need information!

P.S. There was a moment When I almost fucked up the night. At some point when I was seated with her she refused to comply with something and I turned to face away from her. She then said ok, if you gonna act like that I am gonna leave. I just ignored that, I dunno what the fuck was to me at that moment, that was certainly not me and I knew second after how I should have acted. I should have called her bluff on that; "You won't leave cause you like me too much to leave". Then she Said "haha, you are so transparent". I ignored that since I fucked up on the prior test there is no point in arguing there more I would only make it more worse. Instead of that I just quickly changed the topic to get her mind of this, hoping I didn't fuck up. Well, fortunately, I managed to recover :D


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:48 am 
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#1 Logistics. It helps a lot to have your place located close as possible where your going. But if you live sort of far, it's still possible.

#2.Bounce around with your target to different location, including different spot in the venue.

#3 Don't roll with bunch of Guys. Ideal is you and just one wing.

#4. Push/Pull.

#5. Don't go for make out.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:59 am 
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All 4 points make big sense to me, instead of the fifth. Why do you say that I shouldn't go for make out? Do you mean in a way it creates anticipation and gets the girl comfortable with me if I don't do any kissing when she goes around me, and that she is more likely to get somewhere with me (my place, car, etc.) and have sex.

I am 12 kilometers away from the town that has bars which i frequent. In that town I have a working office which I may use and sometimes sister's flat when she's not home. They are not more than 5 kilometers away from any place I go to in that town. I have a more than decent car, with lot of space in it.


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All 4 points make big sense to me, instead of the fifth. Why do you say that I shouldn't go for make out? Do you mean in a way it creates anticipation and gets the girl comfortable with me if I don't do any kissing when she goes around me, and that she is more likely to get somewhere with me (my place, car, etc.) and have sex.

I am 12 kilometers away from the town that has bars which i frequent. In that town I have a working office which I may use and sometimes sister's flat when she's not home. They are not more than 5 kilometers away from any place I go to in that town. I have a more than decent car, with lot of space in it.
the make out breaks the tension, but makes her horny, there is no more anticipation for her, foreplay has started


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I read your whole story and it was kinda similar to my LR lol lr-italian-babe-one-night-stand-vt96604.html ..

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So I was just walking thru the bar and glancing around till I saw this hb7 checking me out. She looked me right in the eyes. I immediately turned around and went towards her. All in slow, controlled, confident manner. She was on a step above me (but still not taller) and she leans over because she knew I was going to say something.
GOOD JOB! and you already know what to do when approaching a HB in the club and no need for other bull crap techniques all you have to do is walk confidently straight infront of her, i also use the 3 seconds rule "when you see her just say anything or whatever" then proceed to gaming her..
btw on body language when a woman leans towards you meaning she's interested and wants to hear something from you..


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Me: Why are you staring at me like that? You know, you can look at me, that's ok, but don't stare at me... Nobody likes to be stared at...
That's too much bro, i think you might scare other chicks away by using that line lol


instead when a lady looks at you in the club just smile at her and if she looks away then stares at you again? that's your invitation to go to her..

btw direct is also good when you approach a chick in the club, you get immediate results that's when you know if you get shutdown but i use compliments to them so no problem :), then just continue having conversation with her keep the topic interesting what ever the both of you might share, ask her to dance with you also great way for using kino and that the part where i end up making out with her in the club then hinting them to go somewhere, usually i DHV without seeming to be cocky and also sexual and not aggressive , situational openers are good too! "Great evening isn't it?" or "awesome crowd we got here" then she replies bla bla bla etc..

If you are planning to approach a 3-5 set then you must isolate her with her friends but on a 2 set you need a wing man cause the other chick might get bored and invite her friend your "target" to leave with her..





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With this opener:

Hey, don't stare at me... You can watch, but don't stare... Nobody likes to be stared at.

I say that in a semi serious voice tone and facial expressions, and my bodylanguage isn't threatening or sexually agressive. I act indifferent. I have about 75% success wit this opener. This opener is some of my best indirect material, and it's an alternative I always use when I don't have anything else in mind to tell her. And I only use this when she really does look at me and maintains eye contact.

This opener will suck however if she didn't look at you, or just noticed you for a quick split second. You must see her checking you out, and looking at you with interest and desire. Otherwise you're just some weird guy that popped out of nowhere with this weird opener. Actually it's kind of direct and indirect. You kind of confront her in a funny way and you can usually tease her just after that she could have and should have simply came over and said hi instead of staring. And you are indifferent, which now puts you as the price and her being the one who wants you. That is what your conversation bases on and eventually gets into her mindset, and yours. You are in control. Most of you PUA guys that like to use PUA terms would call this DHV-ing. I did out with this opener many times. Yes I have recieved some rejections immediately, but they were are. I would usually get phone numbers from these and arrange meetings, and would rarely fuck up. If I would fuck up, I would fuck up somewhere else, not on the actual opener.

I am a bad dancer, I never was confident in my dancing skills, I always thought I looked like a fool and would make me uncomfortable. I could only grind the shit out of the girl but that actually would probably do in most cases contra effects because I would turn out to be overly aggressive. Well sometimes I had success with being that overly aggressive with dancing, but that's when I am intoxicated. Only then Can I dance properly. But it ain't no homo shit, it usually my hands on her ass and such.
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he make out breaks the tension, but makes her horny, there is no more anticipation for her, foreplay has started
Isn't this actually what you want? To get her horny so you can fuck her. How do you guys calibrate when it's the right moment. Because many girls quit on just making out. How do you pass this shit. I am interested in speed. I want to lay girls as fast as possible.


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With this opener:

Hey, don't stare at me... You can watch, but don't stare... Nobody likes to be stared at.

I say that in a semi serious voice tone and facial expressions, and my bodylanguage isn't threatening or sexually agressive. I act indifferent. I have about 75% success wit this opener. This opener is some of my best indirect material, and it's an alternative I always use when I don't have anything else in mind to tell her. And I only use this when she really does look at me and maintains eye contact.
Oh great i thought in a arrogant/cocky way lol but don't forget to be playful also then proceed to introducing yourself..



You can also play some palm reading while in the club or play some shot game..




on dancing? i am not a good dancer also to be honest, i just move my knees(a little stomp) and bounce my head and grab the HB's waist using my left arm then throw my hands in the air with my right arm or you can put both arms on her waist while dancing, the position must be you are at the back then also you can put your head to her shoulders while dancing or give her a twist so that she can face towards you (when i usually do that i stare at her and stop dancing and looking at her lips then move my head towards her and kiss) and put both hands on the back of her waist and i usually talk while dancing..


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I would usually get phone numbers from these and arrange meetings, and would rarely fuck up. If I would fuck up, I would fuck up somewhere else, not on the actual opener.
When i use time constraints, i say the opener then run normal conversation then ask her out for a date then i would say "Hey my buddies are calling/looking for me, i would love to take you out on a date, is there any number that i can reach you at?"(make sure you both exchange numbers or miscall her phone or you miscall her) when you get the HB's phone number you don't call right away to make you not seem "desperate" try calling her on 1 and a half day or 2.. 3 is kinda long and probably might forgot you already..



Yes you got to make her horny and also be sexual and i do loads of kino!

Maybe you put so much pressure on her when making out? like you are touching her tits or pussy while she's on her pants lol remember there's a lot of people in the club and ofcourse she is saving her reputation, it's okay to touch her as long as nobody can see and also you are in control on what you are doing.. but if you can't make out with her then that's not a problem, you can ask her to go somewhere with you, the ideal place would be the toilet then meet another girl and take her to your car etc then make out.









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Watch keys to the vip you can get a lot of idea on club game and gamblers stealth attraction too there's a lot of kino tricks that also might help you with your night/club game.. goodluck!








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I am most interested in getting one night stands and as fast as possible.

I was standing there for 5 minutes talking with her,

That lasted 5 minutes, the she introduced herself.

I kept talking to her there

After some more talking I ask her does she want to kiss me.
another 10-15 minutes of making out happens.

This one night stand took me about 3 hours.
You want to get there faster? Stop fucking talking so much! If you lead with dominant kino, you don't need to say much and you'll encounter a lot less "shit testing" and have to do a lot less "game."

And don't just make out pointlessly for ages because it's nice, use it as leverage to keep escalating and getting her soaking wet and begging for it, then deal with the obstacles and extract.

If you screen for DTF girls quickly, and escalate quickly, you DO NOT need to build very much comfort at all with silly talking, apart from a name exchange, some logistics questions, and maybe a few minutes of random chat mixed with dirty talk.

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And how do you do that without turning out as a "creep"?


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And how do you do that without turning out as a "creep"?


Just stay calm and relaxed that will definitely will make you look confident and is in control on what he is doing and not creepy..
Don't worry about what they think or might say, just focus on being seductive and sexual just don't be desperate like you're in a hurry for sex, most importantly is you are enjoying and having a good time which is more attractive to them.. it would be a lot faster if you would roam around the club and screen some DTF girls just like what ryan said..



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