Hey guys,
I have been around the pickup scene for sometime now. Yet my progress have been stagnant for the last 1 year. Why?

Because I stopped sarging due to the fear of other people knowing about it.

And this topic was made just for tackling that single problem.

When great MPUAs like style made it big, he had a lot of help from the communuity. But there are many here in this forum who don't know anyone in their social circle who can take on the responsibility of being a wing. They, like me, try to pursue their PUA aspirations secretly, ALONE.

All MPUAs, PUAs out there, how can one go from being an AFC to MPUA with only books and videos to show the way and devoid of a wing or any person to talk and share things to?

if you are afraid to go to bars/clubs alone, then try day game, having a wing is pointless during day game anyways,

just do what i have been doing, get a sick ass job working nights were you can read up in this forum for 7/8 hours of work,

go out a few hours a day alone to a highly populated area, my favorites include downtown, the univercity and malls,
just open a whole shit load of girls, i suggest going direct so you don't get a whole bunch of time wasters in your phone, play some serious numbers (shouldn't be hard in highly populated area), be yourself, be honest, show interest/intent, try to get girls out right then and there!! if they don't want to or can't, grab numbers and follow up on them,

just keep at it, you will improve, also hit the gym, work on your style, the more you go out and try the more naturally confident you will become, until you eventually seriously don't give a fuck

and on your days off, just go out to clubs/bars and try to bring friends, if you don't have friends just go make more friends, if you meet guys at bars that think your cool and start following you around when your having fun grab their numbers too and invite them out to bars when you go out, just tell them, GOING OUT TO GET LAID, COME OUT I WILL GET YOU LAID!! even if you can't follow up on your promise it is an easy way to get a wing, were else would you find someone that likes going out to bars but in a bar... good luck

try and get away from MM, it's very very limiting on it's own

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Hey pumpington,
thanks very much for your suggestions. I will most definitely put them to use.


If there are anybody who shares my situation, what are the problems that you deal with and how did you overcome them ?