Self discipline and learn to control it, don't let temptations take over you! lol








-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

Alright thats all good advice, thanks a lot

So...there wouldnt be anything wrong with me medical wise then?

happened to me after i started smoking the reefer heavily. stop smoking and stop wanking. most important gym gym gym. you need to do cardio too. best sex of my life was when i ran cross country. i was super skinny but could fuck/maintain erec for hours.

you need more experience talking and going on dates with women and dancing with them and giving each other massage and foreplay and sexual things to figure out what you like. you'll only figure out what you like through experience. don't do anything that can give you an std for this though. date both men and women and see who you like more. also you might be depressed.

Stop for a week;
You'll get to the point you'll want to fuck the shit out of your showerhead.
Proven fact, more testosterone = sex drive

alright thanks - Ill stop being a wanker

UPDATE:

its been only two days, and I already am about to explode. Going out tonight and im CERTAIN im going to try extra desperately, although ill do my absolute best not to show it.
I feel anxious though, like ive constantly got butterflies.....ah well

So it sounds like part of this problem was anxiety, which happens to all of us.

Let us know how it goes!

Will do (Y)

Update:
Ive wanked about once a week, and am cutting it even less.
So far I feel so much better, and am totally different in my approach with females.
Its weird, but awesome...now whenever I think of sex, I see myself as being dominant (as opposed to equal, as I used to find it) and that actually makes me want it a lot more, and so im a lot more aggressive in my approaches. Ie, if one girl is a waste of time, I pretty much leave right then and go to the next.

No f-closes, but 2 k-closes, so one per night ive been out.
No n-closes because im not really interested in that...I mean the opportunity has been there, but right now I just want to practice approaches and closes, rather than multiple mini-relationships.
f-closes (of the one night stand variety) will always be a challenge until I move out of home, due to inconveniences in logistics. The only way I think I could f-close without feeling awkward would be
a) If its a party and im crashing at a mates house with a girl
b) Its an actual girlfriend who comes over frequently.

Will work on that.
I recommend not wanking at all. Its freaking difficult, but you will do better.

Feel free to leave comments, or have input if you have been trying the same thing.

[quote="Vitamin-J"]Stop for a week straight and see how you feel, I'm guessing a little more active and a little more aggressive.[/quote]

THIS end of discussion.... this was exactly me, and this is exactly how I fixed it.

hahahaha that is so true

Hey Pleasureseeker, did you feel barely any immediate sexual attraction to females before you stopped? Cos thats how I started feeling and I was freaking out that I was becoming gay or asexual or some shit

[quote="Century100"]hahahaha that is so true

Hey Pleasureseeker, did you feel barely any immediate sexual attraction to females before you stopped? Cos thats how I started feeling and I was freaking out that I was becoming gay or asexual or some shit[/quote]

I never thought I was turning gay no. but I would see really gorgeous girls who would even open me, sometimes when I was with friends, and I'd just have no motivation to continue talking to them. I was doing it 2-3x a day mind you... as soon as I was able to withhold it for a week, My inner game changed I was confident, I was motivated, I was much happier (idk why but I think wacking made me feel depressed) and It helped keep me staying off it, I very rarely do it anymore.

yeah thats how I felt!
Like even if a girl was hitting on me, I would usually just not be bothered to take it further either, and then id question myself, thinking "Any other guy WOULD have pounced on that opportunity...why didnt I?"
im exactly as youre describing now. I used to get depressed from it too