This is my first time posting but i have been reading here for a while.
I re initiated contact with this girl i used to talk to like 2 years ago. If you want background it wasn't anything too serious we just made out but we both got busy and stopped talking like that but we stayed friends for a while before we changed phones/lost numbers
Anyway once i got her new number we texted for 4 days straight. She seemed very interested. She told me how shes been trying to talk to me over the years and how she missed me and wanted to see me. we live an hour and half apart but she had no problem making plans for her to come all the way down to see me.
everything went really well while she was down here. there were IOI, i teased her, negs, and she was telling me info that she said she didn't tell many people so i knew she was comfortable with me. We kissed a couple times and the last time she didn't mind me putting my hands all over her and on her butt. I didn't f-close because i didn't wanna make her feel like a slut because we were good friends at one point and to make her have something to look forward to next time.
this was the convo while she was driving home or to the best of my memory
HB.
me. what are so happy bout? (something along those lines not sure)
HB. because i got to see you!
me. to bad it seems your gonna have to wait another two years before we reunite
HB. nooo! im gonna have to see you soon-ish
(little more talk then we called it a night)
...overall the day went as planned
So for the next week or so we didn't text as often and maybe like 3 times she would cut if off and not reply. If she did that i wouldn't send her another text except one day when i was really bored i tried to restart another convo like 4 hours later...she said "sorry boo! i got busy with work. blah blah" when we would text she would still text me with interest and told me things like "i always make her laugh" and that she misses me and she likes me...she also played along with anything that was sexual. If she went to work she would cut off texting but last week she would continue. while we texted she mentioned that we should go shopping and that we should pre game then go to a braves game together so she was still trying to see me it seemed.
the last time she cut of texting i didnt text her for 2 days then when i did she said "i was just about to text you! blah blah other stuff". i was busy that day anyway so it took me a while to respond to her texts and she was responding instantly even at work. she still texted like she was interested and I tried to set up a day to return the favor and visit her. she told me a couple days before this that she wanted me to come down and go to the river with her soon
(mid convo...also note this would be two weeks from last time i saw her)
me. Im possibly free thursday, friday, and saturday
HB. Damnit! im working all those days
me. Your losing brownie ponts lol. we would have fun
HB. I know it! ill try to get one of those days off
me. If i dont see you im gonna have to start cheating on you with other girls
HB. noooooooooooo! im tryingggg! lol
i was tired so i told her i was going to bed after that.
....it seems like she wants to see me because she tries and usually will offer me counterplans if the initial ones interfere with her work schedule. i told her to tell me if she got one of those days of by today so we will see what happens
i didn't text her the next day after that. I know its not gonna turn into a serious relationship or anything because she lives to far away but she has my perfect body on a women and i wanna f-close to be honest. The only problem with her is she doesn't initiate texts and if these plans don't work out should i keep texting her or freeze her out for a couple days or up to a week? and if these plans do work out whats the best way to keep her around as someone i can see every couple of months or so and keep it sexual? i tried to give most the important info if anything else is needed let me know
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