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Ok im not being racist or anything but we black guys can have a more difficult time picking up. Theres certain standards i feel we have to meet as black guys due to positive stereotypes of black people, at least for initial approaching; afterwards you can be as relaxed as you want but first impressions are a different thing for us. To a white chick we need to live up to the image of "cool black guy." Cool Black Guy is smooth as The old spice guy but a little hardcore like Lil Wayne. but with a positive mindset CBG also is educated but with enough ghetto in him to prove he endured hardship. He also is kobe on the court, reggie wayne on the feild and mandingo in the sack.
then if we go after a black girl with stuff from the game they will look at us funny. as a guy who's only dated black girls i can tell you 100% that this shit WILL NOT WORK on black girls from the most hoodrat shaniqua to ms. double major howard soul sista. we have to come off to them as that dude at the Phi Beta Sigma house party. Smooth likr trey songs possible a singer like him as well. Always appearin like all you do is play ball workout and shop for new jordans.
see theres a image we have to live up to as black guys and this community shit wont work on anybody am i right or am i wrong
This is a mental block. You need to get rid of it to be successful with pickup. You dont have to live up to any image as a black guy. Do You. I'm white and have been with more black and hispanic girls than white ones. Even some "ghetto" ones. I suppose its mainly because most of my friends are black or hispanic and those are just the type of girls im more comfortable around. The thing is I dont try to mold myself into any particular "type" that I think certain girls will like. I just do me. I have a job, I go to the gym, Im always down to learn or try new things, I'm confident, etc... My point is to just strive to be your best self and girls will pick up on that regardless of race. Also understand that not every girl is as intelligent as you and I. Some of them are happy with bullshit guys. They're loss, not ours. And Im not saying go out and use openers from the Mystery Method or something. A lot of black chicks will @ u like ur crazy if you tell them some of that shit. But I think the principals of what those guys teach apply pretty well to any race. Just my 2cents