Wow!! nelson, thanks a bunch man, for giving me so many pointers. I feel like my eyes have been opened !

you asked in the previous post, what do I want?

I want to Get laid, really bad! and I feel like, if we did that... it might turn into a real relationship.

I'll let you guys in on a couple more texts that might change your mind about what she thinks of me though, because it certainly has been in the back of my mind...

1st one

"You're the only guy friend I've had that hasn't tried to hit on me, I love that about you!"

2nd one

"(name) , I love you!!! you really are a good friend, hahaha"


despite all the IOI's, does this mean that she has hardcore friendzoned me?

I think I feel ONE-Itis coming on a bit, cann't get her out of my head. lol


thanks again for your responses everyone, it really has helped my head not explode with frustration

alright man,

two things:

1) just because you guys have sex DOES NOT always mean you guys are going to be in a relationship. A girl will have sex with you for fun and may not look fr anything serious either. Girls don't always look for relationships, what they want is to have fun. It's because they don't want to be judge and be labelled as a slut, that they aren't going to let you know right off the bat that they want sex. That is where you need to come in as a guy who's confident and comfortable with his sexuality. You need to be that guy who appreciates her sexuality and not judge her for her desires, but before you can do that you need to accept and appreciate your desires and know it okay an not judge yourself as well. with that, if you're not judgmental and you provide her space and comfort to be sexual, once she knows it's safe to be that naughty little girl, you'll see a whole different side of her. with that said, let's move on to the second point,


2) Re-read what I wrote in the previous posts. She wants you! don't listen to what she's saying, pay attention to her actions. if she says one thing but act opposite then that means she wants you but need you to take te lead. If you want sexy time with her, and she's telling you all of the, "you're a good friend" bs then you should just be like, oh yeah you're a good friend too, and touch her on the shoulder and give her a massage by smiling. touch her knees, touch her thighs, her legs, arms, anywhere that's not sexual. Touch her sexually and slowly, and smile, make sure you smile otherwise you'll look like a creep. but yeah just play along and be like, yeah you're a good friend, massages..... don't over touch her though, just touch her when you feel is natural and just be in the moment. the most important thing is to not over analyze things or think about anything. dont think about getting laid don't think about whether she likes you or not. just be there with her, physically, mentally, and emotionally. listen to her and appreciate her beauty, her personalty, and sexuality. when you can do that, you will naturally radiate this aura though your eyes, your body, the way you carry yourself, and that is sexy to her. Don't try to do this, just be in the moment. If she tells you bs, call her out on it or just play along but telling her it's bs through your actions. move slowly, 2 steps forward 1 step back. the slower you move the faster the moment will move.Trust me, I know this and I trust that you will know very soon as well.



- Nelson

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