Trying a new friendzone, friendzone, mirror them trick. If they put me in the friendzone, I put them in the friendzone according to how I would like to have them as just a friend. Just started doing this getting startling results, and little hints of surrender from the girl. But she is the type that wants me to hang around allot, like live at her house all the time.
And she is a lesbian, with some bisexual habits.

I am not posting this for advice, just for everyone else's study, and judgement.
I recently decided, I cannot hang around this girl all the damm time.
She wants my friendship all to herself, and she does want me around way to much, even makes subtle hints I am more then welcome to stay at her house for weeks, months at a time. I need space, and I think for some men out there, you need to tell women that PUT YOU IN THE FRIENDZONE, you need space sometimes. Get away from that FZ position.

I don't mind being friends with this girl, but she has to realize, and I think some men need to know this, is the only woman that I will consider my best friend, is the woman I am dating, and she needs to take a number with the rest of the girls I have as friends, that I will occasionally pit stop in their lives, and say hello.

This female, like other females that put men into the FZ, is selfish, and will lay load on the willing horse. I have always understood this, back off, don't get that close to 1 female where your feelings effect you. She says friends, sure, just not that close, ease out of how close you have become with her, and live your own life. She might change her mind, but be independent of her

NOW, that said, I am backing off this female, and she is starting to go crazy finding other ways to get that closeness back.
Sometimes, because this girl is a lesbian, OR IS SHE? I find it fun to just tell her NO, I am not coming over, I am busy, I need space, or I want to hang by myself.
And, she goes crazy finding reasons why I should come over, and hang out with her all damm day.
Men, its ok to have a girl as a friend, just have allot of friends for escape.
See the friendzone is your fault, you fell in love, cause you got to close, now you got to have it, but there is still a chance, if you back off respect yourself, and your motto should be, the only woman that will ever be your closest friend will be the one your dating.
I am not after this female, I have known her for a while, and if she actually turned strait, dated, married me. I do it cause I care.
But, she calls me best friend, I call her a good friend, one of many, take a number, wait your turn, know your role, type thing.
This is actually a recent event, I will fill you in as I go.
Aug 1 2011- she is going crazy cause I told her I am not coming to her house till 3 pm this afternoon, -Mark time.

But, this girl really wants me to hang around her waay to much.
And, the way I see it, WHY? Sure if me, and her where in a steady strait loving relationship, I do care about her.
She could have me all the time, I move in to be around her. Well No, she have to marry my ass first, but she get more of my time.
But, if I am her FRIEND, cool, friends understand I cannot be their solitary friend ALL THE DAMM TIME! I got other friends.

Don't be a doormat, have more then one female friend, and find reasons to give yourself some space, tell her you need some space right now, when she constantly wants you to be there for her selfish ass. You need time as well.
What I tell this girl all the time, "I just don't feel like hanging out today, NO I am not coming over". Nuff said, now if she is finding reasons to keep you in her life, its working, your value is increasing.
Let her make it worth your wild.

Mirror them, if your in their friendzone, put them in what you would define a woman as a friend position, be just as selfish as she is, demanding your own time, I mean she is a friend, she will understand.

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So, she is now doing things she never do, to keep close ties with me, but I have my price tag, and will not lower it.
Already wondering when I will come over, I will keep my word, but I will alter my plans as I see fit, for my own reasons.


She is now messaging me more.
Only been 7 hours since I told her I am doing something else today, instead of coming over.
Poor thing, I have no reason to be in her life that much.
Not as just friends, pay attention men.
This is as its happening, she just video called me on my ipod, too.
She never does that, to selfish, and mood swingy about high tech networking, till today. What is my worth? I do not know, gonna find out however.
What, will she do to keep me, if I am worth it, if not, insult, or freedom.
I am ok with it, sometimes doubt is the key to knowledge, and doubt is a good tool.
If your not worth it to someone, you need to find someone that thinks your worth it, how do you know your worth it? That is the doubt to find the knowledge too.
Don't get depressed if your not, just don't hang where your not wanted, and say NO your busy with what you want to do, if they think your their doormat.
Have fun telling them NO....

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Laptops are great for looking like your attention is elsewhere, meanwhile she is trying to get me to look at her, showing how cute her cat is, cool, cool, back to the laptop.
Wonder what else she could do to grab my attention???

I mean I cannot loose the friendship cause I am here at her house.
But, messing up her pretty picture of me being in her friendzone universe is awesome. I shall give her the silent SPAM, about now.
Slow hints the relationship is changing.
I am demanding respect as a friend.
We are friends, but things do not have to go her way.
Ignoring her in her very presence, slowly making her try to get my attention.
I am putting her in my friendszone, cause she is my friend, right? If I don't get anything out of it, least the friendship will be according to how I want her to be as a friend. Someone that can give me the respect of not being her doormat.
Still going quiet...
Silents between me, and her...
I am busy doing something else, she is not treating me like one of her girlfriends.
I am busy doing something important, heh, telling you all about it.
If she fears she is loosing how things are suppose to be, maybe she should do something about it.
But, I do not care, I am going to play on the web, ignoring her tonight. She wanted me over, fine, I brought my computer, wireless broadband Virgin mobile, awesome. I will just zone out, enjoy myself. Turning myself into a sadist, enjoying the ignoring, and its effects.

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What a wonderful way to be a friend. It's true, you're just being a friend and you're doing things up to your own terms. I really like and respect your posts because this is what a lot of guys need to learn. When the girl labelled you as a friend, pursuing her and trying to seduce her won't change a thing because it is really obvious to the girl that you're playing games and she will not even respond to your advances. By treating her like a friend, basically giving her what she asked, she'll think, "wait a minute, why is he not interested anymore? What is going on here?" I like how you work, keep us posted. This is like a romance novel for guys. haha


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This is a strange set of posts. First does this girl have a BF or GF? Second one way to bird-dog here is just to escalate, she sounds (kind of) like she is waiting on you to make the move, so why not try? FZ mirroring seldom works from what I can tell, it only justifies her perception. Instead, just run some serious game, assume dominance and kino, kino, kino. What could it hurt?