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Century100
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I often dont feel extremely attracted to girls.
I mean, ill find them attractive and sexy, but not to the point where im dying to go meet them etc, unless shes a very specific type which turns me on.

Is this because I have naturally low drive? Or because I wank every day?
Yeah, i know its a slightly awks question, but for some reason I never considered this to be a reason until today...previously I just thought I was simply less sexual than my wingman who comments on how badly he wants to root 60% of girls he sees.

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Stop for a week straight and see how you feel, I'm guessing a little more active and a little more aggressive.

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More aggressive? why?
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More aggressive? why?
Higher levels of testosterone in your system. Ejaculating lowers them.
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More aggressive? why?

Masturbation increases endorphin and other hormones that are associated with states of relaxation. There have also been studies to support regular masturbation lowering testosterone levels which is the primary androgenic in the male body.

More testosterone normally means more aggressive.

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1. Stop wanking all the time
2. Check your homone levels, esp testosterone
3. Goto the gym more

=> Maybe go to a gay club and just see if that turns you on more. You might be gay?

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It seems really hard to not wank, even after two days. Is that normal? im 18 btw

Yeah, I actually have thought whether im gay or not. Ive tried thinking about gay stuff and looking at images and that, and although I dont get completely disgusted (desensitisation from porn im guessing), it does nothing for me in that way at all.
I still am very much attracted to women, just less than the main couple of guys i hang with lawl
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It seems really hard to not wank, even after two days. Is that normal? im 18 btw

Yeah, I actually have thought whether im gay or not. Ive tried thinking about gay stuff and looking at images and that, and although I dont get completely disgusted (desensitisation from porn im guessing), it does nothing for me in that way at all.
I still am very much attracted to women, just less than the main couple of guys i hang with lawl
Pick up a hobby or two, do something useful. You'll feel productive and satisfied with yourself, and you'll keep your mind off masturbating.
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just stop man. i only wank when i dont wanna think about girls... in other words, if there is a girl on my mind and i want to stop thinkin g about her i have a wank...
its gross too.
have you had sex before? (im not trying to be offensive btw) once u have sex you will want it much much more because now you know what you are missing out on...
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if you cant stop the habit you might just over kill your thing and it can lead to certin health problems. but as far as the part of not being super attracted to girls you just may be able to use this as an advantage because you wont have to get over a desperate or nervous stage i surrounded myself with hb8-10's all the time to do this


has its ups and downs u dont need to stop u just need to do it a little less often

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Alright, imma do my best to ease up then haha

yeah...i have banged 3 women (one night stands) and havent finished once. I felt like sex was overrated big time, and much prefer foreplay (especially giving a girl and receiving oral)
Far out, im beginning to think im borderline asexual or something...What the hell could cause this? I do gym, and eat well, so like....what the fuck? Its actually a very stressful thought to me T_T

and nah, positive im not gay cos i know im not into guys (before anyone suggests that).
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maybe u havent had good sex? probably because they were one night stands... get a regular girl and do it often. you should find it will get to a point where u will start being late for everything because all u wanna do is fuck and watch tv... that happens to me anyway haha

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definitely take a break. i do believe it is possible to over-fuck as well. sex is good, a lot of sex is great, too much sex is overdoing it. you will lose your drive for a short while. i know i can't be the only one to admit that
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I often dont feel extremely attracted to girls.
I mean, ill find them attractive and sexy, but not to the point where im dying to go meet them etc, unless shes a very specific type which turns me on.
Congrats man, you have self control. You aren't a normal horndog guy who wants you fuck everything he sees.
Take this as your advantage and work with it.

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1. Stop wanking all the time
2. Check your homone levels, esp testosterone
3. Goto the gym more
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+1 ---I know nothing upped my SD more than getting back into shape and not "wanking" or watching any porn. At this point I find myself pulling women I don't even find attractive just by instinct. Just in the grocery store check out line Ill start running game and not even realize it.

I take more risks, feel more like a dude, and I am nearly fearless approaching and with game in general. I feel like I could take on a tiger and not even blink.

Gym, no wanking. Also, stop with the video games and TV, get out, do stuff.
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