Ive liked a girl a few years ago and she liked me back, but she was 14 and i was 17 so i didnt want to have her as my girlfriend so i didnt make my move(In Reality I was a chicken back then or should i say more chicken then i am now) after a while she got a boyfriend and i kicked myself for not hooking up with her=/ cuz she really likes me, all my friends were like "Come ON shes all over you make your move already..." well i didnt, so she got another boyfriend, and the have been together for about 3 years now, about two months ago she caught him cheating on her, she practises martial art and she has won World Championship and shit! So she went and kicked his ass... (the craziest story ever!!!!)but now she has started to text me and going out with my and my friends alot, the otherweek i was watching a movie and she started 2 text me so i invited her over, and she gladly came over so we watches some more movies!

Here is my problem

I chickened out! i couldnt make my move!!! we watched the movie on the livingroom so i sat on one couch and she on the other one, mine was 2person couch her were 3 person chouch, so i couldnt kino or anything, and if i moved to her couch it would be so obvious what i wanted 2 do :S

but i dont know anymore, i dont have any feelings for her I just want to have sex with her, that shouldnt be a problem right? ive never had a problem with girls who WANTS to come to my house except now. Is it because im afraid of that shes gonna tell my friends that i make a move on her and she repelled me? or should i not give a fuck and just go for it?
I dont think this is a real problem i just think i need someone to push me so ill get started

If you guys have any tip on what i should do plz do reply! if not just tell me im a wimp and that I should man up and fuck her!...

Have you heard the phrase "Dont piss in the pool you swim in"
or "Dont dip your pen in company ink"

its kind of the same if she is in the social circle and it would cause problems.

However I would go for it and if you've got your inner game worked out so that it will be no issue after the deed and you can still be friends then i recommend you go for it too haha

Are you sure about that ? Because this behaviour is typicall about a non-declared lover that don't want to mess things up.

If you actually DO have feelings for her, do it the smooth way, with a restaurant dinner and a "movie" once back home. (though YOU should be the main actor of the movie ^^)

If you're certain you don't have any feelings anymore, and that you're sure they won't appear in a close future, then make your move bro !!!

If you guys play it, and that she enjoys it, she probably won't get mad at you for not willing to be her boyfriend. Actually, in your context, you have the best exit excuse ever !

Imagine: you make out with her. It's great, you guys both enjoy it. The day after, she asks to come to your place and she comes. She kisses you. Ok, that's on the way to be "official". If you don't want this to happen, just tell her: "listen, I've been waiting for this moment for years now. Or at least I thaugt I was. But things have changed. My feelings don't belong to you anymore. You spent too much time with a-holes, I grew up tired of waiting. It all fade out"

C'mon bro, make your move ASA-FUCKIN P ! ...and let us know about it ^^

Cheers,
Jon, aka Logycs

Let her take control if you dont want to lose the circle

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Sorry for the late reply but ive been out on vacation with my family, but i got back a few days ago and i did read what you said and i think ive drawn a bad picture of her friends and my friends, she started hanging out with a few of my friends cuz her boyfriend cheated on her so she didnt want to be "alone"? if you get what i mean.

Anyways!

I texted her a spamtext

Me: Im Back BITCHEEEZZ!!!! (this is not a massmessage! Only for you =D)
Her: Heey! welcome back! any gifts for me?
Me: Yeah! A huge one, and if youre good looking, IT GETS BIGGER!!!!!
Her: Haha ive missed your retarded jokes
Me: Retarded huuh? now im gonna delete your number! Ive been thinking alot on what to buy for you and you call me a retard?! Nice talking to you!(then I hit the gym)
Her: haha i was just joking around!
Her: Heeey come on dont be like that!(she texted after 1 hour
Me: Hi! Who is this?
Her:Comee onn!!!!!
Me: Sure i would love to cum but i dont even know you (This works much better in swedish haha)
Her: Comeon Its ****
Me: Oh hi! I thought you didnt talk to retards!
Her:Youre Not a retaard i was just joking around!
Me:Okey, But im heading home now im gonna take a shower, then watch a movie
Her: Oh Okey Which one?
Me: Harry Potter Part 1, but its boring watching a movie alone!
Her: Ill come over! i want to watch that movie too!!
Me: ??? come over?? i wasnt inviting you :S
Her: Well i dont care! im coming over anyways!
Me: Only if you bring Your wonderful cake!!
Her: But i dont have time to make it now!
Me: Then i dont have time to watch the movie with you!!
Her: I can bring some pizza instead?
Me: That sounds like a good idea!
Her: Cool im taking the buss so ill be there in 1 hour!
Me: Aight! sounds good! see you soon!


Then she came over we started to watch the movie, about 15 min then the movie started i moved next to her and said
"hey! this ron type he looks so scary! hes a ginger and doesnt have a soul! but its okey! im here to protect you =D"
i lay my arm around her and after a while we made out!

then i said
"hey this movie is boring! Lets go watch the ceiling in my room!"
and there i Fclosed her,

So thx for the help guys! Thats what i needed to hear! I wish i could do something to get you laid like you got me laid! if your ever in sweden just give me a call, ill do my best =D!

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