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PostPosted: Tue Aug 02, 2011 6:57 pm 
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Is there a name for such creatures? I asked myself why some women do this, and the politically correct answer is, well, friendship is more than skin deep...

However, the AFC in me says this is BULLSHIT. Are these women so insecure that they hang out with not so attractive women to make themselves feel better about themselves? Does that sum it up, or am I missing something?

I've found that one of the greatest challenges in social situations is getting a HB away from a group of non-HB's. One would think that Negs would come in handy here, but I have found that not to be the case...

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Who says they do it to look/feel better about themselves? Maybe they are I don't know... Legit friends?

Shit guys do this too.
You don't hang out with that one dude that is ugly? I bet you do.
Are you doing this to make yourself feel better? Are you that insecure?


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My ex HB10 would hang with 5's all the time. She had maybe 1 that was a 7 or 8... I think a lot has to do with the chicks personality type. Some chicks are shallow like this and do it to feel on top while others are genuine and don't do that kind of thing on purpose.

Be interesting to see what other experienced PUA's have to say.


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Who says they do it to look/feel better about themselves? Maybe they are I don't know... Legit friends?

Shit guys do this too.
You don't hang out with that one dude that is ugly? I bet you do.
Are you doing this to make yourself feel better? Are you that insecure?


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HAHAHA! No, this is a legitimate question. I am truly trying to peel back the layers and see if there is anything behind this. I mean, I'd like to better understand these women psychologically, I mean, I know many are shy. I guess I should add I am taking about severe cases of this.

I am an ugly mofo, and proud of it, quite secure with myself...I really don't hang out with dudes based on their looks, but I do prefer/care for a good looking wing to help me out...

PokerSlot - Interesting, maybe the HB 10s or even 7-8s I've hung with are just shallow, then again, the circles I grew up in promote shallowness...I've always assumed there was an unwritten code about not hanging out with ugly people (see high school). So I don't know, would honestly like some input, I am not trolling.

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I blame this on the fault rating system most employ.

5 should be average, it's a 1-10 scale. I'm about 99% sure these 10's are 6's and these 5's are 4's. The combination of guys wanting to inflate their egos by calling average to above average girls "10s" and thinking that it's somehow mean to call an uggly girl a 3 or a 4 has basically rendered the 1-10 system useless for basing practical advice off of.

Attractive women especially 7's and 8's have less attractive friends for many reasons:

a) it's not always easy to find other girls who look like them
b) social circle issues aka we tend to be friends with those we socialize with most
c) balance namely the attractive girl gets more male attention for the group (more for the un attractive ones) and the un attractive ones get rid of some of the attention for the attractive one.
d) bodyguard/rottweiler theory... aka walking, talking ugly cockblockers
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I blame this on the fault rating system most employ.

5 should be average, it's a 1-10 scale. I'm about 99% sure these 10's are 6's and these 5's are 4's. The combination of guys wanting to inflate their egos by calling average to above average girls "10s" and thinking that it's somehow mean to call an uggly girl a 3 or a 4 has basically rendered the 1-10 system useless for basing practical advice off of.

Attractive women especially 7's and 8's have less attractive friends for many reasons:

a) it's not always easy to find other girls who look like them
b) social circle issues aka we tend to be friends with those we socialize with most
c) balance namely the attractive girl gets more male attention for the group (more for the un attractive ones) and the un attractive ones get rid of some of the attention for the attractive one.
d) bodyguard/rottweiler theory... aka walking, talking ugly cockblockers
etc etc

Ah men to that!! a 5, technically should be a perfectly acceptable girl to game. Average isn't ugly! Its average!


Quick thought: are the guys YOU hang out with all good looking/bad looking? Give them a break, walking into a set with that thought/mindset canny help.

Also i dont think thats 'AFC' thinking. AFC just means someone who never learnt to talk to girls.


Although there is usually a token fat chick who's annoyingly loud in a group of girls :P

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Why must hot girls be with other hot girls? Not all hot girls gel well with other hot girls. Also as Serj said, they can be legit friends, meaning they connect on some level or have things in common.


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Sorry to be a buzz kill. But the fact is the likelihood of seeing a group of hot girls together is pretty unlikely. With hot girls there is almost always ugly girls, the fact is that it is less competition and also makes them look better.
It's nothing to do with being insecure, the fact is they spend 3 hours in the bathroom, there not going to let that be undone by their best mates!


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Are you even sure they are 10's - it's all about contrast... ie put a 6 or 7 with some fugly heffers and she suddenly looks alot hotter due to her ... er .. surroundings. This works both ways putting her with 9's and 10's will diminish her beauty in a group setting.


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You don't hang out with that one dude that is ugly? I bet you do.
None of my friends are particularly... oh sh*t. It's me isn't it?
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I blame this on the fault rating system most employ.

5 should be average, it's a 1-10 scale. I'm about 99% sure these 10's are 6's and these 5's are 4's.
Amongst my friends, we have 2 scales for anything. There's the normal person scale and Steve's scale. Named after Steve when he politely tried to tell a girl that her being a 6 was a good thing (she was better than average). He got slapped.

The normal person scale has a seriously skewed mean. Steve's scale has binomial distribution where mean = 5.


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What the doctor said:
How many 5s do you know?
How many true 10s do you know?

10s don't have much choice other than hanging out with 5s and 6s...

I can count the 10s I know on the fingers of my hand... There aren't enough fingers of all British PUASs to count the 5s and the 6s in GB...


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Sorry to be a buzz kill. But the fact is the likelihood of seeing a group of hot girls together is pretty unlikely. With hot girls there is almost always ugly girls, the fact is that it is less competition and also makes them look better.
It's nothing to do with being insecure, the fact is they spend 3 hours in the bathroom, there not going to let that be undone by their best mates!
Come over where I live and I show you hot girls running around together all the time. :wink:


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First off... I hang out with guys that will add value to myself. When chicks see you with other guys that have value, they automatically apply value to you. As a man, I would never want to hang out with a bunch of guys that had lower value, unless they were handicapped and I was doing a fundraiser, that would be huge DHV.

I remember once that I was with my step mother and we were dropping off her mother... I saw a hot chick across the road watching us pull in, so when we parked I immediately got out and helped "grandma" up the stairs. Trust me, I'm not that nice... but I ended up getting an eye-fuck outta the chick from across the street, which was just satisfying enough.

I live in Vegas... I know what a fucking 10 looks like and what a 5 looks like. I picture something like this...

A ONE
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A FIVE
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An 8/9
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A 10
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First off... I hang out with guys that will add value to myself. When chicks see you with other guys that have value, they automatically apply value to you. As a man, I would never want to hang out with a bunch of guys that had lower value, unless they were handicapped and I was doing a fundraiser, that would be huge DHV.


So... You purposely pick good looking guys to draw attention to yourself. Much like what ugly women do with hot women. But don't even try and deny having one ugly friend unless you are bottom of the pit.


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I remember once that I was with my step mother and we were dropping off her mother... I saw a hot chick across the road watching us pull in, so when we parked I immediately got out and helped "grandma" up the stairs. Trust me, I'm not that nice... but I ended up getting an eye-fuck outta the chick from across the street, which was just satisfying enough.


This is just sad. This alone tells me how insecure about yourself you are. As for the eye fucking... It doesn't mean shit unless you follow up on it.


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I live in Vegas... I know what a fucking 10 looks like and what a 5 looks like. I picture something like this...



Your "8/9" is a 5 and your "5" is an 8 or 9 in my book.
Did you get those mixed up?

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Serj out of interest if you could swap the "8" with the "5", you may find she looks hotter because when viewing the page your blatanty comparing her to the girl with the amazing personality at the top *shudder*.

For me when you scroll through those images you see the top two and the bottom two in pairs sorta, 5 jumps out at me too, like i said before it may be an optical illusion :P


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