"You mean a lot to me, and I just wanted you to know this, even if you don't feel the same way."?

If it is, why is it AFC, apart from the fact that you should already have enough attraction by then. And is there any better way to convey the same message?

Just wondering..

Yes it's AFC, why? Because it is. You don't want to say stuff like that to a girl unless she's your girlfriend. Just show her that you like her by k-closing it'll be more than enough.

First of, it is wrong because of the last part. Even if you don't feel the same way. This shows that you want her to be comfortable even though you didn't get any from her. This is saying: i'll do anything for you, and you don't have to do anything." girls don't wan't that. they want a guy that can say the first part, meaning it, but only after he has gotten his share of the compliments.

"I want you. I don't care."

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how about things like "I missed the times when all this wasn't only about sex, when we had fun just hanging out and doing blah blah.."? Is it AFC?

Basically (as Don Draper might know from my other thread) I have been focusing too much on just having bringing her home and having sex, and not showing her a good time outside of the bedroom, and I think she might be a little turned off and felt used because we didn't explicitly say what we wanted out of this. And like someone said, girls don't think with their vaginas.

It was my bad that when she asked "What are we doing?" after sex, I just said, "I don't know, what do you think?" I might have also inadvertently anchored a forehead kiss to a good time, because everytime I kiss her forehead she just gets flushed and grabs my arm tighter. Or maybe it's just a coincidence.

Yes.

elaborate?

Because you pee your bed at night. That is all.

It sounds pretty AFC to me, unless you have amazing frame control. It sounds pretty pathetic. Doesn't sound congruent:

If you don't care about how she feels about you, then why did you tell her you care about her? It's like saying "I'm alpha and not needy" while sitting there with puppy eyes waiting for a bone. Don't be a bitch and tell her how you feel. Make a move. If she doesn't reciprocate, move on. Word is cheap.