I've been dating a girl for about a month (not officially bf/gf status, but dating)..

anyways-flashback to saturday ..
I called her out for having flirted with some guys on friday night and she responded with "im not your girlfriend"

so i got pissed- we both stopped talking to each other all of sunday and almost all of monday (today) until tonight-

I had texted her saying whatsup because I wanted to say goodbye to her before I leave to college tommorow night- she never responded.
so I go on facebook and see she put a status saying "i'm sorry baby, you were the sun & moon to me". I read it, then chatted her and this was our conversation.

ME:
i wanted to say bye today..

about an hour ago: HER
I'm sorry if you texted me, I don't have my phone.

about an hour ago: ME
i did:\

59 minutes ago: HER
im sorry hun

what are you doing tomorrow

58 minutes ago: ME
getting my stuff ready, packing

58 minutes ago: HER
oh
well if you have a bit of time I would love nothing more than to see you

52 minutes ago: ME
i probably can but not sure at what time

52 minutes ago: HER
whenever is fine
just let me know

7 minuntes ago: HER
I love you Aldo, and I know you'll do amazingly in Leon. You've meant more to me these past couple of years than a lot of people, and truthfully I never fully got over you since my freshman year. It did hurt me when you got upset with me, but I was there for you Friday night. I took care of you because I love and care about you and I really hope that means a lot to you.

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don't know what to tell her- i'm so confused after everything that has happened these last 3 days .

Dude it sounds like you've had a heartfelt relationship friend ship or other wise.



I can't speak to your past with her but lets face it, whatever that maybe you're leaving for school tomorrow and contact will be limited. the relationships we keep and the way we handle ourselves defines us to the world.


My recommendation, forget any and all hard ache that may have happened in the past, because you really don't want to leave with hard feelings.

As a man, you need to talk to her, forget the things in the past, and have a good time with her tomorrow and no hard feelings from here on.

As far as tonight goes, I would respond with something like

"Babe, you mean a lot to me, I don't want to leave with hard feelings, lets meet up and some point tomorrow and say our good byes, I'd hate to not have the chance to see you before I leave."

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I've been dating a girl for about a month (not officially bf/gf status, but dating)..
No you've been friends for about a month

anyways-flashback to saturday ..
I called her out for having flirted with some guys on friday night and she responded with "im not your girlfriend"
so i got pissed- we both stopped talking to each other all of sunday and almost all of monday (today) until tonight-
You got upset because you thought she liked you when she really didnt.
Then you showed her you were insecure about her talking to other guys.
That is not attractive to any woman

I had texted her saying whatsup because I wanted to say goodbye to her before I leave to college tommorow night- she never responded.
so I go on facebook and see she put a status saying "i'm sorry baby, you were the sun & moon to me". I read it, then chatted her and this was our conversation.
"Im sorry, youre a great friend and I dont want to lose you"



If you want to see her tell her to come to your house tomorrow.
If not then dont.
Simple as that. She sees you as a friend not in a sexual way.
After all why would she flirt with other guys in front of you if she was into you?

Its your move.

Serj

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I totally agree with serj.


my only thing is, yer not gonna see each other for a long time after tomorrow, games over, you care for her and she you as friends and I don't believe in burning bridges.


say your good byes and move on.

best of luck

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-DJ_Z

if you take a girl out.. and she is flirting with other guys while you are around.. she isnt into you.. "like that".. and doesnt see you as a dating prospect...



or.. she is just a cunt and does what she wants when she wants to do it and doesnt care what anyone things and if you dont like it fuck you..

Im not sayin FU.. but she might haha

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Cut her out of your life completely. Delete her number immediately, get ready, go out tonight with some mates and make it your mission to f-close a girl tonight! I wouldn't waste another second with this girl, sorry but, you'll fuck your head up if u keep talking to her trust me!!

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i disagree with most of the answers, you were dating and she really liked you, maybe she was flirting, shit testing you, or just having fun, and you acted afc and overreacted and turn her of, most girls while dating and shit, will shit test you, too see if you are macho, jealous, overprotective, this girls digs you dude, you just fucked up and turn her of... Women do shit like this to me ALL THE TIME, next time, do not chase, do not give a fuck, just flirt with other girls, in club game this shit happens 90% of the time...A good example of this shit, Ronney and Sam, from the Jersey Shore..

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Go there, meet her and say your byes.

Maybe, she just got carried away or maybe she just isn't into you. You won't know either unless you've gone there and seen her, only if to just get your answer.

Something tells me that she really does like you. Good luck.

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Three 'shits' and one 'Jersey Shore' reference. In one line.

Sir, you are my hero.

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Don Draper, i know we went back and forth in that relationship post, but you are ok, decent advise most of the times, with that being said... With all due respect, i got more GAME in my pinky than you will ever ever have in your whole life... And sadly that is a FACT...

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wow.. thats words to start a pissing contest... Im gettin a raincoat and gonna watch in the distance..



When I take a girl out.. being that it is a "date" and not just hangin.. It seems the girls I take out just know how to behave.. Nothing has to be said.. That night.. she is just chillin with me.. its a respect thing..


If by chance a girl did pull that on me.. sure.. I would flirt with other women.. turn things around.. and turn the date into an ONS... she just wouldnt be on a date with me after that.. she would just be a side piece when I have nothin else goin on..

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Don't kill me. Please.

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