Hey everyone, I'm just wondering if anyone else has ever encountered this problem. There's this HB8 from college, and I've always noticed her and wanted to get to know her. That has finally happened. I've made a good impression, but for some reason I haven't asked her out yet. I'm debating it.. she seems like an awesome girl for the most part. But sometimes I'm not sure how much I'm physically attracted to her (call me shallow, whatever I don't care). It's not anything major, just often it seems she puts no effort in (hair, clothes, etc.)

Anyways, after debating all of that and deciding to play the field but still keep in touch with her, I was out with some friends tonight and happened to bump into her. She was in a rush so we only talked for a minute, but after she left I felt weird. It seemed like we had a true connection between us. And all that we did was say a quick "hello, how's it going" and "see you around".

Am I really feeling something between us, or did I simply feel funny because I had just decided to not bother with her, but then happened to see her? I appreciate any opinions!

ok...

so, what is your question again?

can you be more specific about "the feeling" she gives you?

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sounds like love is in the air

Seems indeed like there's a connection between you two but don't ask the forums if you're feelings are true, only you can know.

I don't know "Destiny" and "Fate" were never my favourite words. Maybe, you believe in them.

Either way, if you want to be with this girl, take your chances. As for how much efforts she puts into her persona, you could change that. Women change men, and vice-versa.

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Lol, sorry man. Just felt that regardless of how much debating I did with myself, after seeing her for a minute I couldn't get her off my mind for the rest of the night.

Sorry if this sounds lame to anyone

Lmao I wouldn't say anything even remotely close to that, but stronger interest in her than I was aware of, yes.

i understand the feeling. this one coworker i had, i've only ever talked to her once when she came over to listen to my presentation, and i felt a connection.

i'm no pua (yet), people can call it one-itis all they want, but i feel sometimes that's how people get married eventually.

Its possible, but I'd honestly chalk the feeling up to the time gap. I mean, that's the core of the freeze out concept. Its an issue of supply and demand in terms of contact with someone, and for a while your supply was out. I'm not saying don't game her, I'm just saying be reasonable about your situation. There is no fated meeting, no destined encounter, it takes effort to succeed with women, so if you think its worth the effort, best of luck to ya!

Nah, I don't believe in "Destiny" and "Fate" (at least not in such small events such as this, especially one revolving around dating).

Great point about how we are able to influence a chick's persona. I've seen tons of chicks change after being with a guy for awhile, and most often she puts more effort in than she used to

Thanks for throwing out your opinions guys

Looks like someone was dragged into too many chickflicks

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Very good points man. This could be, and probably is, part of the reason now that I think about it. Although, a group of us were out 2 weeks ago and I talked to her a lot that night and still felt kinda the same way. But it wasn't the same as this short interaction, so I think your point about the time gap is very accurate.

I know how you feel. It's quite ironic b/c I'm in the SAME kind of situation.

The presence of the individual can make the heart grow fonder, and I found this out, as well.

If you want to invest, buy a ticket, and see where it goes from there.

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Go For It!!

Find out what happens!!

The worst thing is you might lose her.. big deal!

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the universe only gives what you need , it doesn't give you what you want...

go for it ..

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