| I can't say I like the mall or go there much but I used this before worked really well a few times an I'm getting a lot of mall game/day game questions on chat, so why not share with others.
I admit this took place sometime ago and I cant recall every word but hey, I'm not here to tell you what to say, I'm here to give you an outline you can adapt to yourself and the girl.
So I was at the mall looking for a pair of sunglasses not really knowing where to go I spot a lovely young lady and said hey, why not, I walk up using the MM over the shoulder approach, if you guys don't know this it's very simple and designed to have a natural and none threatening feel, many other guru's teach it but MM was the first...I think.
Walking around phone in hand as if your texting your peeps pick your target and head that way, as you walk by almost pass her and stop your shoulder right about adjacent to her stop yourself from walking and open looking over your shoulder. This has a very easy feeling, natural nonthreatening feel to it which is great in day game.
I say, Hey can you tell me where the sun glass hut is? the cute Asian girl says "yeah it's blah blah blah, blah blah, blah blab blab." "thank you" I reply, "hey, sorry but you look very familiar, where do I know you from?" (I love this question even though I know I've never met her before she's going to start talking about her school hangout and hobbies....and I'm going to use this information to help build comfort) she does just that and I use a few of the things she say's to open new threads (multi-thread)
We get to talking, I'm friendly and flirty and...Oh shit...I need her name? "I'm sorry I'm being rude I'm Vitamin-J and you are?" "Jessica!? no way, that was my high school sweethearts name, I can't even talk to you anymore" "okay Jessica you seem like a cool chick, you out waiting for friends to show up.., I need to find some sunglasses but have no sense of fashion why don't you help me?"
she agrees and we move to the sunglasses store.
The reason this is great is because I've now opened, built rapport and am now taking her on a first date and I'm building comfort at the sunglasses place.
I do my normal, CnF some light kino and we decide on a pair of sunglasses for me. Now I should have said this earlier but she was wearing glasses too. By this time I'm in, shes giving me IOI's like crazy so it's time..
Me: Idk, I like these but, I I kiss a girl that wears glasses do you think they'll get in the say.
She smiles (IOI) she gives me a hair toss and a smile (IOI) She says "I guess you'll have to buy them and find out"
Me: or....
and I move in and get the Kiss.
we exchange numbers and go about our day. (I'll write the LR for this at a later time)
There you go kids open, build first date, K.Close
Best of luck out there.
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