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PostPosted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 5:01 pm 
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Okay so I go to the coffee shop pretty early this morning, about 8:30 (it's early for me lol). Anyways, I'm just chilling on my computer doing whatever for a bit and this girl comes in, get's a coffee and sits relatively close to me. She's about a hb7-8 IMO. Anyhow she's just sitting there as am I and I decided to go outside for a cigarette.

So like clockwork she follows me outside and asks for a smoke. I decided to give her one and then we started bantering about how smoking is bad, need to quit, blah blah blah.

Time goes by and I am in the comfort stage, talking back and forth about how we got into the situations that we're in right now. She tells me about her kid blah blah blah. I demonstrate some light kino here and there, nothing too severe because it's pretty early in the day and were at a coffee shop with other people around us.

So we talk for about 15 minutes and she starts to gather her things. I say, "where you off to in such a rush" she says, "going to be late for work blah blah blah". And I say, "if you're leaving then how are we supposed continue our conversation?" and she says, "I'll give you my number and you can text me after work". So i get the number, do a ghost call and all that.

So she starts heading down the street to go to her place of work since it's right across the road. So we start texting back and forth before she goes into work. The conversation went/is going like this...

Her: I forgot ur name can u tell me again
Me: Lol I'm gonna charge you five bucks for every time you forget from now on every time you forget :P it's (my name here)
Her: I like that name i thought about naming my son (my name here) but i settled on jayden.
Me:Ahh, shoulda gone with (my name here). But, Jayden is still a good name. If you have a baby girl what do you want to name her?
Her:Never really thought bout it idk alida...wby?(means "what about you" for those who don't know lol)
Me:skylar for my first baby girl, dunno why just really appeals to me. And I know I'm cute and you're just dying to talk to me and all but dont you have a job to do? ;) I wouldn't want to get a good girl like you in trouble with the boss.
Her:Yup u right about that i am doing my job i multi task, i like that name.
Her:So u know you very cute huh u must get it a lot. I know how it is... ;)
Me: Haha I didn't say Very cute, i just said cute, very cute came out of your mouth. So the truth finally comes out huh? ;)
Her:WEll i was gonna say fine cuz thats the truth
Her:See cuz my son is cute like akid is cute but u r fine but i didnt say it cuz i was being timid.


So what do you think guys? Is it on? I told her I just got out of a relationship and am not looking for anything serious right now.

She says shes been dating this guy for like 4 years now but we talked practically nothing of him.

I just don't want it to proceed into anything serious. I've dated 2 girls now with kids and it just complicates the shit out of things, at least for me.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 8:21 pm 
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If you notices she keeps mentioning she has a kid. That more than likely means she is not looking for fuck buddies. She is looking for a man to take care of her. So if you want that I suggest you make it clear to her. If you continue the way you are going you will be showing her you want to be the daddy.


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If you notices she keeps mentioning she has a kid. That more than likely means she is not looking for fuck buddies. She is looking for a man to take care of her. So if you want that I suggest you make it clear to her. If you continue the way you are going you will be showing her you want to be the daddy.
Yeah I think you're right. We were getting into talking about pretty sexual stuff and then randomly out of the blue she sent me two pictures of her kid! Being held by the dad! That she's still with! I thought all the talk about her being with him for four years and everything showed that she still wanted to stay with him and just have a little fun on the side. Is there anyway to nail the point home without specifically saying "Uhmm yeah, I'm not looking for a relationship."?

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