So I've met this girl who was a LOT of fun at the time I met her. I went on a day 2 with her and we both had a great time.

Afterwards, we exchanged some great flirty and fun texts, but now all of a sudden, she stopped being fun somehow. She's not jumping through any of my hoops, even if they are small and she's not responding in any playful way (she is still responding to every text I send)

So, I've decided I'm done playing around and I conjured up this text:

"Right... Tell you what: Next tuesday I'm going to grab a coffee at ... . If you think you can manage to be the fun girl you were a couple of weeks ago, you can give me a call and you can join me."

Now that I've written it, I'm having doubts about sending it..

What do you guys think?

It's a bit too direct, chances are she's gonna be offended by it. Also i'd leave out the call me part, just let her get back to you by text to confirm.

"Right... Tell you what: Next tuesday I'm going to grab a coffee at ... . I'll let you come with me if you behave."

This isn't the ideal text, it's just an example. Feel free to adjust this tho.

Thank you!!! I've sent that text and it looks like she did a complete 180!

You're more than welcome but I hope you learned something from it. The forums are meant to be a learning experience so that you'll end up not needing any help anymore. If you understand the mistake in your text, you learned and that's what matters most.

Glad I could help !