Youre trying, youre already better than you were before!
Dont worry, I got rejected 4 times last night
And guess what -

being rejected isnt even bad!! At least you can think back "Man, im a legend. I actually tried"

Even going out in itself is trying. Just try take it further each time
And dont think that everyone on this forum bangs girls every night
I bet a bunch of us, including me definitely, rarely actually take it all the way to the f-close. Its all about getting better slowly, you cant grasp this firmly overnight! Its life skills, which you build on through life. You have YEARS, imagine how good you would be if you tried a little more each time, every night, for one year. Eventually youre bound to master it!

Im not an expert btw. Ive had a few f-closes this year, but then I had a huge dry spell myself. Currently im still in one! (although my confidence is improving, due to trying stuff and getting tips from here etc)

good luck buddy