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Well if the last two responses didn't notice, I said that I was going to say them subtly and within a relevant conversation. A routine is where you stack your DHVS in a way that you can continue to carry on the conversation. I don't intend to do that because it's robotic. I just want to say positive points about myself within the conversation where it's necessary. Not once did I say I was going to brag.
look my point was that a DHV is meant to make you look good, if you slip in DHV's just so people know that they exist for you, it won't do much, the point of DHVing and negging, is to create the whole this person looks up to me kind of feel, a verbal DHV is usually just an interesting story, doesn't actually need to have the DHV's in it parsay, a story about how you had a pet frog when you were young could be a dhv as long as you tell it well and it is interesting/funny, mostly the only DHV that will aid you through the use of subtle hints without it being interesting is pre-selection, and that more or less only helps cause it demonstrates most likely that you will not be needy and have experience and are not some crazy rapist, but proofing DHV's is the most effective, not talking about them,
DEMONSTRATE higher value, don't just say you do it, or talk about it, unless it is a cool story with subtle dhv spikes in it, it is allways better to just simply demonstrate higher value
if the storys around your dhvs are interesting/funny then that is all the matters really, you can use all those DHV's if you find an appropriate time to tell a story about them, but make sure the story is interesting or they are irrelivant and come off as tryhard/bragging