So are you? ...

Thing is im nearly 17 and still a virgin yeah i know thats pathetic, its not that im not good looking or that im not a smooth talker its just i think im too picky and hollywood has fucked up my perception. On one hand i wanna get laid, but on the other i want to lose it to someone i actually love and will look back and think yeah im proud. Im thinking about just getting it out of the way with this dirty chick who wants it.

My question really is, are you proud of whom you lost it too? Is it a big deal & do you look back upon it?

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I was 20 (almost 21) when I lost my virginity. I waited till I had my first girlfriend and we both were virgins. We were in love and it was an amazing experience. In retrospect I am happy that I waited and I will always remember it.

U can't say that it's pathetic for a 17 year old to be a virgin! I'm 18 and still a virgin, i have no problem admitting it. Sure many of my friends are not but who the hell cares about that?

Anyway, I'm working on a girl right now I think i could lose it to, but if not, doesn't matter. It's only in your head man

Personally, to me, the first time is just the same as any other time. If you were waiting for someone 'special' you could be waiting till you're mid-twenties if not older!

However, having said that, mine was with a girl who I was with for 7 months. We both lost it together. She was a HB8 and one of the sexiest girls i've been with. So yeah, i'm proud..

Regarding your comment of being a virgin at 17 pathetic, I completely disagree. It's not pathetic at any age to lose it. I was personally 17 and 11 months when I lost mine.

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Its been awhile since I lost my virginity.. back when I was 17 summer after grad highschool..

Of course its better to lose your virginity to someone you really care about... Just know.. yer young.. she probably isnt going to be the woman you are going to spend the rest of your life with... But fear not.. there will be others..

Dont stress on losing your virginity.. It will happen when it does.. its good to find a girl that isnt that experienced sexually either for if any other reason.. it will make the experience even more special for you both...
Some people say.. just sleep with anyone to get it over with.. and for some. thats fine.. but based on this message.. Im not gettin that vibe from you..

I'll always remember whom I lost mine to... I wouldnt date her again.. because she was Nuckin Futz on a whole other level hahaha.. I dont regret whom I lost it too though.. It was a great experience venturing into the realm of sexual exploration..

Best Wishes

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Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Not really, I was 19 and she was 18. Lost it in the front seat of my car in my bank parking lot lol. She was some wealthy asian girl, she was amazing I can't lie but we didn't talk much more after that. Oh well it's in the past and can't change it.

I wouldn't worry about it at all. I lost my virginity just after I turned 19 I think and in England, that's a huge amount of pressure to deal with. It was annoying as most people that knew me just thought I was getting alot of sex because I'm quite good looking and a nice guy.

In your question, I lost my virgin to a pure filth girl who would shag anyone at the time and she was a few years younger. To be honest I didn't shag her straight away as I was worried about my mates having a laugh at my expense just because of her age. I knew her for a few years when I did, but it didn't happen for a while because she wanted to be my girlfriend and because she was a few years younger I said no. After we done it a few times and we kind of lost touch for around a year, she has changed her philosophy and I really regret not trying to make something work with her, as we did get on really well and she was really hot. But as they say, plenty of fish in the sea. We still talk now.

Just don't make it a big deal. It's not at all.

I was about 23 when I lost my virginity I think. I spent most weekends doing sports and never got into the party scene, so I use that as an excuse.

I'm used to deeply ashamed of my first lay, but you know what? Now that I'm 29 and have slept with about 22 girls, it doesn't matter anymore.
So my advice is - if a girl gives you an erection and wants to screw, then by all means screw her!
In fact - if you wait until you find someone special, you might be so nervous due to lack of experience that it won't be special after all. Use those "not so special girls" as batting practice so that you'll be ready when the right one comes along.

Good luck, kid!

17 is nothing im 20 and lost my virginity like 3 weeks ago to a chick i was talking to for a few weeks. am i proud? i dont really know i mean shes showing signs that she doesnt want us to be together at first when we started hanging out she was all over me and we seemed like two highschool kids in "love" (highschool think-you're-in-love-but-you're-not kind of love) but now we're kind of in a rough state. i wish i wasnt such a little bitch in highschool there were so many girls i could of dated and lost it meaningful to but i was to shy to go after them when it was obvious they wanted me oh well life goes on of love) but now we're kind of in a rough state. i wish i wasnt such a little bitch in highschool there were so many girls i could of dated and lost it meaningful to but i was to shy to go after them when it was obvious they wanted me oh well life goes on

I don't see it as a big deal personally. I was 17 when I first had sex, and it was like "okay, I should just get this over with".

I was 18 and yes I'm still damn proud about that one:D

Not the lay itself, bcs it was the first time and ye... you do suck the first time. But that girl was the hottest girl i have had sex with so far and maybe it will stay that way until i die:D (she have now been in a swedish version of playboy)

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Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

I actually lost my virginity about a month ago. (I'm about 20 1/2) yeah I had the dreams of losing to it to a girl that I loved..you know..the real romantic shit. But unfortunately It didn't go that way for me. To be honest, it was a really bad experience. My buddy and I double teamed a lesbian. she was ugly. I could hardly keep a hard on probably due to the anxiety. and I didnt even cum. It actually feels kinda good to let this out on here because I'm slightly embarassed to tell anyone I know. I morally regret it, but the only reason I dont regret it entirely is because I lost my virginity..and that was my goal. If I could go back, would I have done it? probably not..but then again Id probably still be suffering. It chilled me out for a couple days..but sure enough my raging hormones came back. The fact that I was actually able to "put it in" was enough for me...cause honestly..the desire probably would have killed me. To be really honest, I could hardly even feel it even though she was tight..I'm sitting there pumping away thinking to myself " this is it?? this is sex??" I know I would have enjoyed it 100 times better if it was meaningful..but..it wasnt.

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Very. Im actually regretful i lost it to her since i had to break up with her to go on my manly journey to playerdome ;D

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Lost mine to a girl I was really into back then at 16. I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole now but it doesn't bother me, I liked her then and i rarely ever think about it now.

I lost mine a little under a year ago; when I was 18.

I was a freshman in college; and she was a good friends ex-FB. I had her come over to my place.

She was horrifying to look at, truthfully. I could not even nut during the affair.

I regret that decision, because there was nothing special about it, and I couldn't even get into it. I just had this ugly chubbo riding me until she was done; then I laid there bathing in sweat and shame, feeling even worse than I did before the act.

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