G'day gentlemen.

I have made previous threads about this girl I will be talking about before and I would appreciate the same level of constructive feedback I received before.


The Past
Me met freshman year of high school, I always had a feeling she was interested in me. Did not really respond/pursue further.

Transferred to another high school one city over during sophomore year, for the next three years until graduation we only seldom chat online and met up once. (She came to my school to hang out)

I began chatting with her more often as I started college (kinda far away). She goes to a community college back in my hometown. We begin hanging out (either just us or with other mutual friends who I knew back in my first high school) every break when I'm in town.

Some IOIs(maybe?) she has given me: Arm around shoulder, linked arms when I said I was cold, greeted me once by hugging me around my waist.

On a side note, she has gone through 2 boyfriends during this time, and in the past, would talk to me about her problems and what not, but recently (in the last 6 months, she stopped bringing it up). We talk more about her goals and future now.

The Present
I like her. I guess it really started when we went to the movies last fall (just the two of us) and after the movie, we just sat in her car and talked for hours. So earlier this summer, I decided to step it up a notch and make some moves.

I began hugging her every time we meet up. We went to a party and we got a picture of us together. One of her friends commented on it and said cute, she replied with "i know he is hehe" and I said "and together we're sexy ". She didn't comment back.

A week or two after that, I was going to be back in town for the weekend and I decided to give her a little test. I asked her when she was free and she said she was probably going to the lake with her friends on Sunday and I said that was the only I was free. She ended up meeting me on Sunday and we had lunch and watched a movie.

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Thats a huge IOI actually, When you become "her emotional tampon" you cant establish a relationship, but if shes talking about her future, she probly means with you.
obviously you #closed, you hang, have you Kclosed? that would be the next "step". You've obviously hung out a lot so it shouldnt be hard to convince her to go somewhere where it would be easy to kclose. Make sure the moments right and take the next step!

No I have not Kclosed. The fact that I've known her as a long time friend makes me anxious to kiss her. I would rather tell her I like her so I could make sure we are on the same page before kissing her.

It can go either way, its definitely down the hole if you don't know how to tell her you like her though. Make sure you look up on that because just saying "i like you" for some reason doesn't go well with girls...

I did not know that, what do you propose that I do instead?

oh good god i just saved u from f-in urself sideways XD
To be truthful I totally forgot how to tell a girl you like her
Its always been them sayin they like me or just knowing she likes me lol, start a new topic or hope someone reads this one for a actual answer im sorry i cant help.

chodes "tell"

pua's "show"

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Thank you good sir, I needed that reminder.

Mack's right.

If you want anything more with this girl, you have to take risks. Maybe, it will all go down the drain, or it will all work out.. nobody knows.

High risks, high rewards.

The whole anxiety about being "her friend", that's a load of crap. You don't want to be her friend, do you? You want to be something more.

Go show her what she's worth in your world. And for the love of God, start being bold and take chances. Kiss her ,when you think it'll be right.

If she rejects you, you'll know your place. If she doesn't, you've opened up a completely new field.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

hmm, ask her over for a movie, meet her up before hand, hold her hand smile at her, the whole 9 yards, take her home make out with her (just attempt don't ask), tell her how you feel, use a simile or metaphor to describe it, then go for the kill, make sure what you say, is genuinely how you feel,

could go bad, could go good,

if you don't place your bet, you never win the prize