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PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 4:07 pm 
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I've had really mixed results with online dating. I recently got out of a long term relationship and started using OKCupid. In the last few months I've been on 6 or 7 dates and none of them have gone anywhere. I had one woman (at the end of a date) voluntarily give me her number and tell me that I'd better use it, then totally ignore my calls which is a bit odd :). BUT I was mostly an AFC on those dates - no kino or anything so it's my fault.

But a few years back I used Craigs List which lead to a hot fuck buddy for a few months so you never know what you're going to get.

Another thing to consider is that online women are picking and choosing from 100s of profiles of men they know want to date so there are a LOT of serial first daters on there who will not give you a second chance which equates to a big waste of time/money often.

After all that my biggest success so far since being single was out at a bar where (ok I admit it) I was f-closed (not the other way around) by an HB8 so I am going to take my chances in the real world.


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Most normal young chicks will cringe at the idea of meeting someone they met online. Girls i know like to joke about joinig match if they ever get really desperate. If you do get to get their number, it will take a lot of effort to get them to go for a date.

Ive tried it. Its easier on your AA but the 90 of girls ive met are either fat outcasts, good looking weirdoes, or fat outcast weirdos with zero social skills. I knew i could lay them, but my self respect prevented me from doing so. You meet the occasional normal good looking chick but you weed through so much shit you are already paranoid and cant enjoy either way.

Infield sarging is waaaay more rewarding and organic. You could theoretically add in online sarging, but the one thing about the internet is it sucks you in. One day you are doing online sarging a little, the next day you find yourself online the entire day waiting for a reply from a seemingly promising chick with lots of cleavage pics.

I agree, stick to infield sarging.
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every girl i met online has been fat
Then why did you meet them in the first place. :roll:

What's with all the hate. I've F-closed some HB7's and HB8's off the internet so go hate on that.

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nt hating on big women at all its jus that they post super slim pics of themselves and then turn out the opp in person. :)


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ROFL DR XAVIER, LIKE A BALD CHICK IN A WHEELCHAIR?
BHAHAHAHAHA WTF
yes pretty similar like you description .. i don't want even talk about it - it makes me feel depressed.

internet dating / gaming sucks you in .. it's bad for your health .. and you aren't really doing anything productive.

real life sarging owns...period ... all the times i did sarge the internet i felt nothing.. i just felt empty - wasting time , like my brain unconciously knows hot and fun woman are walking through the mall...the results i got with internet sarging is nothing compared to real life sarging... at least i learned body language an all that stuff.

to tell the truth for the last few months i was getting tired of meeting all these screwed up chicks in bars... i thought that datingsites had better and more serious people instead of retarded party girls...i thought wow - a way to increase qualification... so for the last month / few weeks im was very active in online dating.

lol im getting emotional

FUCK THIS CHODE SHIT ... fuck internet dating .. that shit.. fucking waste of time, talking to multiple woman for hours - if it was in real life i already would create attraction - over internet nothing happens .. joke this joke that ''haahah''. I got people in my msn and it doesn't lead to any shit...if i meet a woman in real life and next day im chatting with her i got a day 2 in like 10 minutes or so...on internet dating they all want to know if you aren't a serial killer or some dude who jerks of every night at old star trak movies... it takes freaking hours and days to create comfort and trust , you invest so much time chatting with one person that you get attached - you will get into your head and start to check 2 times daily if they have sent you any replies.

then you will meet the woman and it turns out that she's some fucking midget and lied about all her shit...and don't even want to go to the cinema anymore to watch movies because this troll is standing in front of me....i started out with testing internet dating and it's fucking terrible - you cannot use body language and all that stuff - the stuff you know that works doesn't work because it's not real life.. people get offended by jokes because they don't see you smiling.

it makes me frustrated .. i was chatting with this woman and after 10 minutes i was like ; GDI if this was a real life face2face approach she already would be attracted - very frustrating. You cannot get attraction through chatting .. only comfort or some trust because you share private information.

so i get online to this dating sites and i hook another woman .. we send messages to eachother and she was in the '' im fucking dominant and i want to fuck you '' frame - anyway i enjoy dominant woman because they test my game. So i talk to her .. and after 10 minutes she shows 0 % interest in me.. she didn't asked one question regarding my personality - well she asked where i live - how important. after 20 minutes she talked about how her marriage failed 1 year ago and how diforced and how this is the hardest choice of her life...i didn't even asked about it - she probably wanna convey she's single but i already fucking knew it otherwise she wouldn't hang out on a datingsite... suddenly she becomes a emotional T-rex , spilling all this emotional garbage over me.

Normally i would cut off the topic..or tell her to shut up and lighten up - but i really felt bad for her and at the same time my interest in her was killed...first she was all cool and dominant and a few minutes later she turned into this boring emotional machine who didn't show any interest in me...that was her game ... boring... depressive....actually the next day we had a normal convo... she just intiated tried to get approval and left, she never asked me one question about my personality...

actually while im typing this im fucking mad .. i wasted my fucking time on someone and i didn't really got something out of it, i much rather give advice to people i don't know on this forum seems 20 times more productive. don't tell me about fucking AA .. because i had as much AA as in real life - it doesn't matter, you want to meet the person anyway so it's better to sarge and face your AA directly.

i also met a woman who seriously talked to me about paranormal stuff..very weird shit..she told me she knew shit about me and told me im going to be enlightened if i do this and that blabla...anyway i just told her she's right- whatever - i don't trust people who promise enlightement anyway , it sounds like a bad business deal. at the end at the convo she told me shes going to give me a dream and that i will dream that night... i was like wtf .. wut ok thanks !

last night i had the worst fucking dream of my life .. i woke up all depressed and tired - i said to myself ; get the fuck away from me with your crystal ball you freak ... o yes and this woman know blocked me on msn.. don't tell me why.

i only met ; mutants ... freaks ... depressed people who take the easy way to meet new people.

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my internet dating adventure was fun ... i need a psychologist and a shitload of xanax... horrible experience

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i also met a woman who seriously talked to me about paranormal stuff..very weird shit..she told me she knew shit about me and told me im going to be enlightened if i do this and that blabla...anyway i just told her she's right- whatever - i don't trust people who promise enlightement anyway , it sounds like a bad business deal. at the end at the convo she told me shes going to give me a dream and that i will dream that night... i was like wtf .. wut ok thanks !

last night i had the worst fucking dream of my life .. i woke up all depressed and tired - i said to myself ; get the fuck away from me with your crystal ball you freak ... o yes and this woman know blocked me on msn.. don't tell me why.
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