So I went to a fun party last night, it was successful and I closed my first ever black girl!

My question is how to deal with some of the LMR protests. She said "I'm not having sex with you." and I was fine with that, we did everything but. But she was operating under this frame that I was trying to seduce her in an immoral way, and I had a really really hard time breaking it. I got protests like "I'm sure you say that sort of thing to every girl" "Who was the last girl you hooked up with?" (and then she brought it up a little later) "I'm not this kind of girl, I can't believe you're making me do this."

What are some good ways to deal with this without sounding like I'll want anything serious in the future?

Before she gets a chance to give you that kind of resistance, screen her for her sexual values to predict if she'll give you that sort of conservative-based resistance in the first place. If she's a little more prude, then you can decide whether or not she's worth pursuing.

One simple way I like to screen for these values is by using the classic Strawberry Fields routine. Look that up if you don't already know it. It's also useful for sexual framing.

Now, the following would be pretty good to pull on girls who would say those kinds of things to you (I'm not that type of girl, I'm sure you say this to all girls, I can't believe you're making me do this, etc.), but it's a pretty slick move regardless of whether she's more conservative like that or not.

Here's what you do... simply flip the script before they have an opportunity to use those resistances... while you're escalating!

"I'm not that type of guy... I'm sure you say that to all the guys... I can't believe you're making me do this..."

Ciaran's "Shock and Awe" technique uses this principle to really ramp up sexual tension, so that might also be something you'd be interested in looking up.

I definitely did try to turn it into a "You're seducing me" frame from the start but she was really resistant. I'll give Strawberry Fields and Shock and Awe a look, thanks for the help!