ok so, i broke it off with my gf of a year and a half about a month ago. up until last week we were friends with benefits but then she came to me and was telling me that she is trying to get over me and she cant have sex with me because its too confusing and she is too attatched and she wants to move on.
i want her back.
i told her that and it didnt go down well, she got pissed at me sayin she is trying to move on and i should be too. i made my bed etc etc. thing is i can tell she still has feelings (she cried when she was telling me we couldnt be together and only a week ago told me she loved me after sex).

but when i wanna talk feeling and shit she justr gets angry at me. there is still alot of attraction as we have been flirting etc and we are going to a boxing class nxt week which will be alot of kino and flirting. so do i just keep freezing her out act alpha and just escalate physically until i can f-close and try and evoke some emotion out of her?

cried told you she loved you after sex with you?
or after sex with someone else?,

be honest with your intentions with her and conduct yourself in a manner that you see fit, if she is disinterested and you feel as if she is wasting your time, freeze out, if she is not disinterested and isn't flaking, and you are not at risk of seeming needy then a freeze out is not nessicary, how ever from your post the situation is not 100% clear,

make what you tell her, clear, and genuine, and don't back down from your true feelings

Well, here's the truth.

She wants to move on, and she wants you to move on.

Maybe you both shared great times together, and maybe you thought it would last forever. But, it did not.

Now,you can cry about it and make her cry about it or you can do the right thing by letting her go and finding some closure.

Now, you can try to put out buckets of water out from a sinking ship, but the reality won't change. It is still going to sink.

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