HELLO GUYS! So, i see lots of ppl struggling with how to start a convo after number close and second day meeting and stuff. I decided to share a REAL "second day talk". Let me give a quick background of how i met this HB9:
Birthday party in NYC at a friends house. She was my main target. We got introduced, i didnt show much interest BUT i showed her some latin dance moves (part of kino), we were fighting with water guns (I KNOW, We are on our mid 20s, but it was like 90 degrees and it was fun! lol), and by the end of the night she was eating crab like a PRO, so i was preteding i didnt know how to break the crab so she could teach me (it was funny cause basically i made her break the crab while i was eating from her plate... i was prettending she was my personal servant).
I knew that i would be able to find her on facebook, so i didnt exchange numbers so i wouldnt show much interest. VERY IMPORTANT: right after her name on facebook, she has "BOo" as her nickname. I added her on fb like 5 days latter, and she accepted like 1 minute after.
Now watch how i made fun of her, how i created a nickname for her, how i RECALLED THE BEST MOMENTS WE SPENT TOGETHER, etc...

ME- owww... that was quick
SHE- Hiii!
SHE- yeaa ur lucky i had my comp on cause we wouldnt be friends till i finally realized u requested me lol
ME- ohhh goshhh im soooo lucky!!!... i dont know how i would survive another week without having you on my friends list! *smh
its time to stalk your profile... please do not interrupt!
ME- NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
O_o NJ Devils?!?!?!?! ... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
i have seen enough!
SHE- Oooohhh yeaaaa
ME- "Unfriend" **CLICK... "Report/Block This Person" **CLICK
SHE- do as u wish im Devils all dayyyyyyy
ME- no wonder i had a bad feeling about you... *smh you still believe in red little devils, dragons and all those fantasies?
SHE- lmao till i dieee
ME- ohhh goshhh ... you must live in a fairytale
SHE- i do its magical lol
ME- Is "BOo" your fairytale name?what are you, a ghost?!O_o
SHE- u are sooo smart and onto my fairytale lol
ME- im not into fairytales... im into cartoons, like ghostbusters ... so you better watch out BOo!
SHE- bring it onnnnn
ME- ITS ONNNNNNNN
"If there is something strange in your neighborhood, how ya gonna call?!
GHOSTBUSTERS!!... i ain't affraid of no ghosts!!!"
SHE- lmaooo ... Clearly you "ain't"! ur tooo funny we so gotta hang out again
ME- You are the one who should be afraid of my ghostbusters connections! Im gonna call you Casper so my friends dont attack you
SHE- i am u, just cant see it lol
ME- Your "eating crab tutorial" came out realy handy! Im a pro at it now... Watch out!
SHE- i think theres a thank you somewhere in thereeee lol. esp since u made fun of me lol
ME- Thank you?!? Come on Casper, I just told you that you added another skill to my list of perks... Making you feel proud of yourself should be grateful enought!And I dont recall making fun of you.... But I most likely did :p..
HER- u defff did..
ME- Showing you the dance moves should have made up for it. And besides, you hit me a couple time with that crazy gun! You should thank me for not calling the cops on you!..
SHE- you were trying to steal it sooo technically i could call the cops on u..
ME- I would get away with self defense!..
SHE- noo noo! the cops would totallllllly believe me when i tell htem u were trying to steal my gun so i had to defend myself..
ME- no no no NOMiss Casper, you stold the gun from a kid that was at least 10 years younger than you. i dont care about the cops... thats against my norms and principles. i was not only defending myself, i was looking after the defence of the future of this nation by protecting the young generation!..
SHE- wowwww way to try and gain points on the kids..
ME- you think that just because you are a woman you can get away with anything?! hellz to the NOOOO..
SHE- watch me!! lol:p
ME- are you threatening me miss Casper?!..
SHE- lol neverrr..
ME- i start thinking this world is way too small for the both of us. we must settle this on a crab eating contest!the master against the newbie. you know who always comes up on top on those competitions right?!YEEEE.... THATS WHAT I THOUGHT..
GET SCARED! GET REALLY SCARED!!!..
SHE- lmaooo oh i totallllly got this but not tonight cause i gotta get my ass up early lol..
ME- i dont eat before i go to bed either... thats how lucky your "ass up early" is!..
SHE- i know ur nervous cause im totally gonna beat u lol. u try and rest that head of urs
ME- you are gonna have nightmares with a giant crab!..
SHE- oooh nooo hun ill be sleeping sweetly but i feel bad for u lol..
ME- sleep well cause you are not gonna have too many days to live!..
SHE- lol thats not niceeeee..
ME- 1 on 1, no help, no special tools, no "stop Nelson, you got to give me an handicap advantage cause im a girl!"!..
SHE- ooohh puhleaaaaseeee ull be screaming for help dont u worrrrry..
ME- *snap*snap ... says the crab... Sleep well Casper... *Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
SHE- gnight ...sleeeeep sweeet

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Im not a player... im a winner!

My advice on starting a second day conversation:
1- Be funny! Make her laugh... she will appreciate it!
2- Create a nickname for her based on ANYTHING she has done or said! I even create several nicknames for the same person as i get to know her. Exemples are: Miss Sarcasm, Miss "i hate chinese food", Miss "malibu pinneapple no ice", etc.
3- Recall the good, funny, embarassing moments you had with her on the first encounter. Make sure they are positive moments. You can start with a negative moment, but make sure you make it in a funny way, for example: I met a girl one night and i droped a glass on her dress. On the following day i txted her saying "i bought a realy fancy yellow raincoat at Home Depot today... im gonna wear it next time we go out cause i know you cant wait to take revange on me!".
4- Alow her to make fun of you. Dont get aggrecive or over defencive! Some ppl would say "you are giving up your power allowing her to make fun of you"... NOO NOOO NOOOO! Its perfect for confort building! Believe me! Let her be an asshole to you, but dont be affraid to be an "ass" to them... Put words in their mouths, like, when a girl gives me a complement on clothing, perfume, anything, latter on i will tell her "i know you dont like me cause you are jealous of my perfume (or whatever)" SARCASTICALLY! Tease her to be an ass and show her its ok for her to be an ass with you cause you like being an ass to her too! Dont overdo it or you might lose control and she actually gets pissed at you. Let her win a couple "debates" ... just go "you know what... im gonna let you win this time cause my testosterone is boiling and i might have to "Mike Tyse YOU"... i hate you!"

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Im not a player... im a winner!