When it comes to topics chicks dig and get all wet and gooey, they LOVE to talk about relationships. When girls get together, almost always they talk about relationships. So what better way to open with something that they can HOOK into!

I came up with this just now, on the spot so here's the "unedited" version. I want to post this here and see what you guys think before I field-test this.

I'll call this one the Gay Opener.

“hey I have a quick question, I can only stay for a sec, but would it be ok to tell a girl I’m gay, when I’m really not, just to make them feel at ease with me?

(they say something, perhaps giggle at such a random question)

Ok, I gotta go soon but the reason why I ask is sometimes when I talk to a group of girls, they think I’m hitting on them when I’m really not. I’m just being friendly. so what they do is the universal girl thing where look at each other like OMG, who is this guy? I mean during the conversation, I might give off “gay” qualities like being hyper, loud, laughing, and having a high energy and occasionally doing this with my lips (purse lips). Im kidding. But no, so I figure that if I talk to a group of girls, I’ll tell them I’m gay so they feel more at ease with me.

I mean what else am I going to do, stand there, nod, try to look cool? (act out what you say). what do you guys think?”

Then transition into whatever....


Thoughts, ideas, dislikes, comment.

-Maserato


(The top part is the original post)
(Bottom part is the edited version) credit TheFreshPrince


“hey I have a quick question, I can only stay for a sec, but would it be ok to tell a girl I’m gay, when I’m really not, just to make them feel at ease with me?
Ok, I gotta go soon but the reason why I ask is sometimes when I talk to a group of girls, they’re naturally attracted to me because well you know I’m so handsome, but I can’t seem to have a serious conversation with a girl without her hitting on me. I’m just being friendly. so what they do is the universal girl thing where look at each other like OMG, who is this guy? I mean during the conversation, I might give off “gay” qualities like being hyper, loud, laughing, and having a high energy and occasionally doing this with my lips (purse lips). Im kidding. But no, so I figure that if I talk to a group of girls, I’ll tell them I’m gay so they feel more at ease with me.
I mean what else am I going to do, stand there, nod, try to look cool? (act out what you say). what do you guys think?”

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Down to sarge.

Is good for the newer guys who fear rejection.

For me, it's too long.

It's cool, but I think it DLV because these girls in your story don't want anything to do with you because you're "hitting on them". I think it would better to say that girls are naturally attracted to you because you're so handsome (cocky funny to show it's a joke), but that you can't just have a serious conversation with a girl without HER hitting on YOU.

Then transition directly into showing some interest in these girls, so that they know yo aren't just trying to have a serious conversation with them, but that you are "hitting on THEM".

I like your suggestion. I can actually see this working so thanks for the input. I haven't used any cocky/funny into early conversations as of late and I realize I prob should.

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Down to sarge.

I dont like it at all. It seems like it can put you out of the playing field easily with some women

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I have this disease, I'm allergic to bullshit

Every opener will put you "out of the field" as you put it, with some women. But I think this opener could definitely work because it has all the right elements. Good work, Maserato.

I think anything can work as long as you say it confidently, but from personal experience girls hate it when guys don't tell the truth or try to be something they're not so there's a good chance you'll get a negative response with this opener. 90% of the time they'll probably respond with "Nah, just be yourself". The opener also suggests that you're the one qualifying yourself to women.

Feel free to use it to practice approaching though, maybe some girls will find it cute

I like it, mainly the bit in the opener where you say that i'm not hitting on them I just fancy a chat and they are getting all bitchy.

So basically they are thinking I don't want to be one of those bitches, lets just have a chat. But then you have to spin this back around.

Also watch out for the DLV undertones, but I like the basis!

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Tony T

I don't see it working, your literally asking a group of girls how to be more sneaky in approaching other girls. Your getting a girls opinion on how to lie to another girl. if it works, work it, but i don't see it working.

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Attraction isn't a choice, stop worrying about finding the right woman and start focusing on becoming the right man.

I'm always looking to sarge with new people...hit me up if you are in the Orange County/Los Angeles area.

See, no matter what, when you come up to a girl or a group of girls, automatically, they will have their shield up regardless of whether or not you're going to pick them up. Although I have not tried this opener, I gotta make it a point to field test it a few times and give it some credible opinions.

Personally, I see it working because you'll already create the basis of attraction. (Humor, confidence, status). Early on, you DHV. Of course tonality will be a factor. But I'm really curious how this will work in-field. I should try it out tomorrow.

As with all approaches however, how you transition is crucial, regardless of the approach.

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Down to sarge.

That's what she said.

If you like indirect openers, then sure, just about anything not related to the HB's counts as an indirect opener and works(ish).