Recently cancelled my account because I felt I was getting nowhere and it was a waste of time. I would spend endless late hours looking through girls profiles...need more girls in my life but somehow don't think internet dating is the way to achieve this.

Thoughts?

any stream of women is of benefit, if you need more women, the more access to them you have, the better,

but tbh,

meeting people in real life is more fun, they cant log off when your talking to them

the internet dating world is full of freaks, mutants, and semi-retarded shut-ins.

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Free online dating sites are bull shit your better off putting a post on craigslist...Tried Match.com not bad more girls to pick and better chance of meeting someone. Only thing that sucks is it's not free.

I look at it this way if I'm taking a break from clubs I could use that potential club money for a mth membership on Match .

Internet dating is good and bad

Good
- You can talk to chicks from home pretty much around the clock.
- It's a lazy way to meet chicks.
- It's cheap.
- Most girls online are just normal girls.
- The whack jobs that are on there usually show their colours early anyway.
- You know if they're single, where they live, what they're looking for straight away.
- Logistics can be sorted out before you even meet them.
- Easier to sort out the horny chicks from the prudes (well, usually)
- Most guys online are total chodes.
- If you get a date it's essentially a day 2.
- If you get a date it's pretty easy to get a SNL.

Bad
- Chatting online can get boring pretty quick.
- Some chicks seemingly just want to chat online endlessly without meeting.
- Some chicks look much better in photos than they do in real life.
- Not very time efficient.
- Not the best way to improve your skills

Internet dating is underrated I reckon. At my peak I was F-closing about once a fortnight.

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No but they can walk away tho which is basically the same thing.

Stopping your internet dating? Well mate, this should be the first day of your new life. Smartest move so far.

Learn what is provided here, go out and try it. Soon enough, there will be more girls in your life. We are kinda here for you if you have relevant and on experience based questions. Dont come here asking things you dont understand that come right out of a book. Try things out, then ask questions .

cheers and good luck to you!

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Internet dating in general should be used in addition to gaming girls in person, it should not be your main thing. It seems a guys here make internet game there main thing and too many get frustrated. Most girls don't take dating sites that seriously only a handful of them do and the ones that do you most probably don't want to be with.

Yea agree. I used to totally rely on internet dating as a way of getting chicks, and while I was F-closing fairly regularly, I just got frustrated with some of the obvious limits.

So I stopped all together, went cold turkey and started sarging at bars. At first I thought "why the hell did I ever bother with internet dating?" but now after a lot of bar sarging I'm starting to realise that internet dating does have it's place in the world of chicks. So the ideal combination is a bit of both, especially if you spend a fair bit of time behind a computer anyway.

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Most normal young chicks will cringe at the idea of meeting someone they met online. Girls i know like to joke about joinig match if they ever get really desperate. If you do get to get their number, it will take a lot of effort to get them to go for a date.

Ive tried it. Its easier on your AA but the 90 of girls ive met are either fat outcasts, good looking weirdoes, or fat outcast weirdos with zero social skills. I knew i could lay them, but my self respect prevented me from doing so. You meet the occasional normal good looking chick but you weed through so much shit you are already paranoid and cant enjoy either way.

Infield sarging is waaaay more rewarding and organic. You could theoretically add in online sarging, but the one thing about the internet is it sucks you in. One day you are doing online sarging a little, the next day you find yourself online the entire day waiting for a reply from a seemingly promising chick with lots of cleavage pics.

I agree, stick to infield sarging.

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I dunno how this goes in other countries around the world, but where I come from 90% of the game guys do places on Facebook, which is really sad, since imo you really loose contact with the reality and your social skills, cause if you would see, what kind of shit people here are writing on FB (shit that they wouldn't say in real life, if you would held a gun to their head) you would said that my whole country is chode.

BUT the main thing here is that girls are digging this, if anyone hits on them through FB then he'll probably leave comments on her photos, after that she'll check out if he's worthy and she'll reply something like: "Oh really" and they'll gonna start to FB chat, then after a few weeks, they'll get together started dating and if you're in that 5% group of them choosing "I wanna fuck him", you'll probably get a threesome.

So I'll say like this, FB gaming here, good and bad thing. It takes a lot of work and energy and you'll get flaked / friendzoned / verbaly attacked, BUT if you pull this off, the reward'll be fucking awesome.

Btw this stuff also shows here as where a guy sais to girl online: "I wanna come home and fuck you in your bed." and she sais: "Awww, you're just teasing me." While if you say that in real life you'll get: "What a creep, I can't believe, people like this exist today, you should be arrested." Field tested on the same girl.

So yeah if I sum it up for you shortly: whole country is online, everybody in real life pretends that they hate it, everybody in virtual life pretend that they like it, flirting has become electronic and the whole Facebook here has become a one giant WHOREHOUSE, sadly.

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Basically I infield sarge as much as I can and I never let online sarging get in the way of ANYTHING else in my life, it's just something I do on the side. Like right now I'm cruising this forum and online sarging at the same time, if I wasn't online sarging I'd be cruising this forum and watching youtube or some other waste of time thing.

It's just handy to have at your disposal and it can sometimes work wonders. I've been home on a Tuesday at 9pm, went online and had a quick sniff around, and next thing I know I'm banging a HB8. If I didn't online sarge I would've just watched a movie and went to sleep.

And I've met some really fucking cool chicks online sarging.

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i met the female version of doctor xavier you won't believe how much freaks i've seen....

you need to get to a legit dating site which is not only about dating but also about friendship and that kind of stuff. Anyway most woman are boring... and of course you have a small percentage of cool woman who are tired of meeting dancing monkeys in bars...

almost all woman i have met were just acting through a different persona.. they were playing dominant and indifferent.. but in the end they seemed either a huge mutant or a emotional person who seeks approval....

i didn't have much flaking with most people because i met them in real life .. but if you meet someone over the inernet without knowing or meeting them they will flake.. if you want friends or someone to talk to - use dating sites and internet .. if you want to talk to the girl you met last night - talk to her on chat to get her to meet you... if you want a girlfriend through a dating site - good luck because most of them are lying , behaving different than they really are , lying about things they do.

not to mension the crazy ex-wives who diforced recently.. they swing from i wanna date and fuck you mode to im seeking approval and im not over my baggage mode... fuck online dating sites , they never worked for me and i never got what i expected. in my country it sucks ass ..laying those woman is something i probably don't want to do because they probably got laid with 3 different guys every week. the younger girls like 18 or 20 are not serious , most of them creep out at the idea of meeting someone who they solely know on the internet.

look you can use dating sites .. i know people who met alot of cool people through datingsites and social media, i have met some cool people through those mediums , however you are better of with sarging because this way you know what you are talking to , you know what you are dating - and it's much more rewarding to sarge because you will get into all new adventures... you don't want to know how much time i wasted with

1. people who flake because they aren't mature about meeting someone in real life
2. people who you meet and they are totally different than the way they have presented themself on internet ...some of them really are mutants.

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I've known a lot of people that have met their special someone through the internet and it worked great for them. However they were full grown adults that were divorced with kids and full time jobs and busy lives and have outgrown the bar scene and all that kind of stuff.

If you are 40 years old and have a full plate of kids activities and a heavy work load and you no longer want to be a dancing monkey in a bar picking up skany bar chicks the internet CAN be a viable tool.

HOWEVER, it should just be a single tool in a well stocked toolbox and should not be the only venue that is used.

No matter how you make first contact with someone you still need the common basic social skills to make eye contact, Approach, engage, kino, establish comfort/rapport etc and you need to be able to do that in person in the real world.