Ok so this girl I became needy with, we had an argument about space issues and our relationship status so I'm going to freeze her out. My last text to her last night was "just want you to know that i'll give all the space you need. you know where to find me " (copied it from somewhere in this forum, can't remember where).

She just replied with a "< 3" emoticon. We've been doing that quite a lot lately, so I'm just going to take that as a neutral indicator.

Thing is being weak-minded I sent her a text today saying "hey you, remember to have fun at the renaissance fair "

She replied "Thank you I will. Did you end up planning a road trip?" (She apparently stalked my Facebook because I didn't tell her that)

Should I ignore her text, since I was going to freeze her out? We are attending a concert with a group of friends next weekend, so I don't know if that would complicate things.

She doesn't know your freezing her out, and since you txted she thinks its over. Your already over with it, overall its your decision, did you get what you wanted from the freeze? is all you have to ask yourself

i don't think so, we got a bit too serious because i acted like we were in a relationship, hence the argument about space issues. i'm just trying to regain attraction, but i think i fucked it up by texting her today.

any way to salvage it?

It's not like you told her "im freezing you out for 7 days", she doesnt know when your done. Anyways dont be rude and ignor her last txt but refreeze her, txtin her once kept you on her mind, no loss there

i figured. i don't know why i'm thinking too much about this, ever since i broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years i've lost my game. and i gamed my ex via long-distance too. now i just feel i've lost all this mojo.

so anyway i just replied "kind of (just to keep it a mystery as to where i'm going) well you enjoy yourself. i'll talk to you later~" and then refreeze her.

wish me luck :/

The point of a freeze out is to freeze her out meaning no contact. If you want to freeze her out then do it properly else it won't feel like a freeze out to her.

yup, like i said, i got weak-minded. so i just told her to enjoy herself at the renaissance fair, and i'll "talk to her later". which is in about a week, and during this time i'll be freezing her out.

do i have to do childish things like blocking her on fb as well? because i really hate doing that.

No not at all , in fact you want to abuse facebook a bit and post DHV status updates. But avoid chatting to her tho

i will, but she does this 'Like' thing on my statuses once in a while, and then does nothing. but yes, i will be sure to post some DHV stuff

if a girl says she gets irrationally jealous and that we shouldn't be together because i have 'too many girl friends', is that a shit test?

idk about test but if you answer it wrong you fail it anyways XD
you can't say you dont have GF's shell wonder whats wrong with you
you can't say you do have to many GF's she'll wonder whats wrong with you
So make sure you choose responce C

Come up with some bullshit if you feel the attraction is strong between you guys and you want to get back with her for a while just say " I might have a lot of female friends but you're the only one .... " or " ... not all of them ... " Just make her or "the person" feel special. by "the person" I mean using the distraction stuff, like saying to a girl you met "I just met this cute girl last week and our schedules don't work out, got any ideas? " So you're basically talking about her and she'll know but you're not putting it out there.

I know this might not fit the topic, but I thought I'd just share the story. We used to be coworkers, and then we became FWBs. I started acting all needy and like we were in a relationship, and it sort of scared her off.

We went on a long roadtrip together (because it was already planned), and yet throughout the trip we were having kino, kissing and holding hands. When we returned I did a mini freeze-out, and she said she was sorry for acting like a bitch and that she was scared off by how serious we were getting. I said she could make it up by going for dinner and buying me a drink.

We did, and on that night we had lots of kino, we were kissing and making out and she was grabbing me through my jeans. Things were getting hot, but we didn't f-close that night because she had to wake up early.

During this whole time I was still dating other girls and hanging out with them, but my mind was mostly still on her. Sort of a semi-oneitis. She came over one Sunday and for one moment while we were in bed I just grabbed her face and said, "I love you.", and she said "I love you too." We didn't f-close either (because she was ragging), but I made her climax twice through dry-humping and she gave me a handjob. She was also saying how she misses how my cock felt inside her.

We then sexted for the next few days and things were getting really hot, like she would be saying "yes, I'm craving your cock. but I'm busy tonight." I thought I'd try my luck and drive an hour to her place, and she was indeed busy and tired. I think this scared her off again.

We had a second argument about me giving her space and about our relationship status. She said she loves me (which I think is just something she's saying to comfort me), but that she couldn't sleep with me anymore because she can't separate emotions from sex (although I have plowed through that with her before). She said she can't have a relationship with me because we wouldn't make it, and that we would be terrible for each other.

That's when I decided to give her space, and hence my freeze-out again right now.
Everytime we meet we have pretty hot k-closes though. I have girls lined up, but this girl is pretty special, and the sex is amazing. I'd really want to keep her if I can.

I would still freeze her out, even though she replied, it can't hurt. A. you freeze her out she gets mad at you for ignoring her (this is a good thing), B. She misses you.... if you don't freeze her out, she might just reply because she feels guilty or is being nice but is feeling suffocated and eventually she'll tell you to go away. I would ignore the text and give her a couple days away from you, if she TEXTS you, then go ahead and reply with LESS words than she used.... also you can "like" her status's on facebook, it'll keep her thinking about you.

argh darn it i already replied with the abovementioned text :/

[quote="axocrust"][quote="pleasureseeker"]I would still freeze her out, even though she replied, it can't hurt. A. you freeze her out she gets mad at you for ignoring her (this is a good thing), B. She misses you.... if you don't freeze her out, she might just reply because she feels guilty or is being nice but is feeling suffocated and eventually she'll tell you to go away. I would ignore the text and give her a couple days away from you, if she TEXTS you, then go ahead and reply with LESS words than she used.... also you can "like" her status's on facebook, it'll keep her thinking about you.[/quote]

argh darn it i already replied with the abovementioned text :/[/quote]

next time you feel needy or weak, try meditation.