I'm so fuckin bored with my friends! Every time we go out, we go to a cafe where one my friends works...it started as a way of spending some time with him when we went out at night, but now it's becoming a fuckin habit and i don't like it because there's no one of our age at that place....only a few people, and they are above 30 years old. I'm 19, i wanna go out to more lively places, with people of my own age and chicks! Only one of them agrees with me and wants a change but the others dont give a crap WHAT DO I DO?

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Aspiring PUA

suggest a better place, if im at a coffee shop and some1s like "lets go to the skateboard park, or a water park ect." ill head with em, also AMOG and lead the group yourself, ppl follow the leader

i already did :s and it was today. But then they chose another cafe full of old people, and it was near a square with lots of people. We could have gone there, i can't fuckin understand why they chose places away from the crowd

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Aspiring PUA

find different friends, hang where you want to, you dont need to have 10 people by you at all times, its ezier to game solo or as a pair anyways...

find new friends, go out by yourself, constantly invite them to different places, maybe one day start seeding to the idea that the coffee shop is gay and boreing, if you keep mentioning MAN THIS COFFEE SHOP SURE IS BOREING AND GAY, 1 time every single time you go, eventually it will become anchored in their minds

I got the same problem my mates are friggen lame as fuck and hardly ever go out, it's so rare that when they do they normally buy $200 worth of clothes just for the occasion.

Yea man get new friends, that what I did solved my problem overnight. I tried negging them (haha) into getting their ass into gear but after a few months and next to no progress I gave up.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

Your friend are probably scared to game themselves. That's why they are evading places where you can find girls. I've seen this happen also. I honestly think you outgrew your friends.

So educate them, or find new ones to go out with (i don't say dump them, just find more suitable ones for going out.

I had the same problems. Well actually, my closest friends are actually 5 girls. I'm not gay or anything; I used to have like 10 guy friends + those 5 girls + a few other girls who hung out everyday when we were younger. But everyone split off and I'm stuck with these 5 girls, most of whom are taken. Lol I don't hate them, but I wished I had guy friends I could go PU with. I had to turn to this forum and found some cool people. Worked like a charm.

I've also had a couple of female friends. The men/women ratio was 1 to 6 or so. I think it ruined the way I looked at women. I mean, I think we need some testostorone around us. Girls aren't good examples for us to learn how to be dominant, are they?

Anybody has different ideas?

I think having a lot of girl friends puts us in the lead against many PUA. It means you know how to have fun with them and how to deal with them, past all the sexual thirst. You just need to skew that into more sexual terms when speaking to those you wanna fuck.

Guys without a lot of female friendships has to learn how to do both instead of one.

they do have girlfriends...only two of them and I don't have one (our group is formed by 6 or 7 people) so, i think they couldn't care less right now if they need to go to places where we can find chicks or not

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Aspiring PUA

that would be a solution, if i didn't live in a small ass town with little population. Every body has their own groups, altough we all know people from different groups, but it would be kinda weird if all of a sudden i started to ask those people if i could hang out with them. There is another town about 3 miles away, and i know that people there are different from here...they actually like to go out and meet new people. I suggested them to go there but only one of us has a car and we can't all fit in it. I guess i really need to get my drivers license...that way i could go wherever the hell i wanted

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