if you're with a girl and she doesn't want to have sex, after you've tried everything, so you settle with fooling around in other ways, and she still gets you off, is it wise to tell her afterwards that you feel like you've went too far?

Someone told me about that, and it seems a bit silly. I don't understand the logic behind that. Won't that make the girl confused? Someone explain to me if that is a good idea? or Totally misinformed.

telling her afterward sounds like a retarded plan to me,

telling her that during foreplay and stopping when she is horny, that might help you progress, because she is most likely to re-initiate and you are playing the part of the resistor, this might make her feel more sexually secure (makes her not associate herself as the resistor to the escalation but rather the person doing the escalating) but tbh, if you do this too much you risk her agreeing, and thus the foreplay ends, all in all it is best to keep this kind of thing to a minimum if you are going to add it to your game do it maybe once or twice if you are going to do it, sort of reminds me of a take-away, get her to a high point then remove yourself to make her realize how much she values you,

here read this post lmr-again-vt96883.html

more or less dealing with LMR is explained

The only reason a guy is saying that is when he actually feels like he's went too far or he might've seen that work somewhere in some movie.

Either way, it's a stupid move.

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It just seemed like a MIND game. like a major mindgame. because guess what. the same guy who said "we went too far!" then insisted that I give him a kiss goodnight, and he was all seductive about it, and then he was sending me cute animal videos.

Ok heres what you do, as your making out with her move your hand slowly down and say "You should stop me".