Male and female polarity. The more masculine you are, and the more feminen she is, the more attracted to eachother you become
This is another way that "game" becomes easy like breathing. You basically become connected with feminen energy, and you are the other half to her half. The male and female energies fit together so well like a puzzle, similar to when you are spooning (or screwing) in bed and your bodies become one.


This relates to NLP, but I have only dabbled and seeing that it takes many years to learn, i'd rather focus on more tangible goals right now. Anyone have any insight into NLP and tapping into their energy?

Surface level
Surface level, where you see and meet random girls through your day, public. You come to the point where you feel how attracted woman are to you, and they can feel your energy in return. This lowers approach anxiety and nervousness (but everyone has a little) because you can literally feel a connection happening once you lock eyes with hers. Talking to her becomes effortless when you can vibe with her, as in your vibrations are in rythm with hers. Sometimes I like talking about completely pointless topics such as how nutty my coffee tastes (self amusement) and all you are seeing is whether your personalities vibe or not.

Become aware of the beauty she has. I like to acknowledge her bodily beauty by glancing down as we're building rapport and vibing and smiling. Showing my apprecition for her form without being disrespectful (such as making eye contact with her breasts rather than eyes)



Deeper level
This is something that comes natural to some guys, but without practice or a girlfriend, you don't really know how to do it. Simply laying her down and taking her somewhere else, some mountain in a fairy tale, without having sex. Kind of like in movies, but in real life. Stuff like very lightly caressing her chin, shoulder, leg, anywhere there's skin. Petting her hair like she's all you've ever wanted, and looking into her eyes and just smiling.

This is where it can become addicting, though. You realize that you have this power to shift her reality and make her feel really good and happy inside. Nothing really feels better than to display your deep affection for women.

Deepest level
Sex is the deepest because your love spot is literally inside of hers. Show her how much you love her by how deeply and passionately you can intertwine tongues. Do this down below as well, going as deep as possible because here is where you reach the depths of her spirit and energy. It's great when your juices join together to become one.

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You've been doing some Tantra lately haven't you

It's just that I don't believe that falling in love with feminen energy is what gets you the girl. What gets you the girl is imo how comfortable is she with you to invest her time getting to know you better.
I think that falling in love with her feminen energy (not feminen energy in general), gets you in a relationship, which can be good/bad, depends on what type of guy you are.

This feminen energy (I'm talking in general here) could be defined as being the other pole of the same magnet and the tools or better say consequences of harnesting this energy is imo attraction & seduction & flirting those 3 things bring the girl closer to you.

Nice post though, liked it

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Ive spent 7 years studying and practicing tantra, and i really agree that having a sort of reverence for the feminine energy is essential, but that doesnt necessarily translate into a strong polarity. True tantric practitioners spend hours alone mastering their own energy, learning how to tap into the power of every fibre in their being. This is why they are able to do incredibly amazing things to the feminine energy, ive personally made a woman orgasm in a club after knowing her for only 15 min, and i didnt take her clothes of, or touch her vagina, but i did touch the rest of her body. Granted, I had been meditating for over 4 hours a day for 4 months, which was essential. If you fall in love with the feminine, and have the ability to be so present, open, and masculine that it overwhelms her, now that is bad ass, and you can definitely learn to do that by seriously studying tantra. It has helped my "game" almost as much as practicing, actually, in some cases it has been more valuable, as meditating really gives you the ability to internalize and reflect on things.

You good Sir have some fantastic skills.

It took me a little over 2 year to truly integrate the concepts, fundamental beliefs, energetic, emotional, bodily and spiritual control over myself to be capable of truly gaining enjoyment, peace and the kinds of abilities that I consider to be the heart and soul of Tantric Sexuality. Even though I knew the concepts, have been studying human sexuality with true intent for my entire life (since at least 4 years old) and had been coaching men in this community professionally for about 2 years, it took those 2 years of deep reflection, meditation, yoga, listening to Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now and Lasting Happiness, David Deida's Way of the Superior Man and interacting with world class mentors like Sean Messenger, Johnny Soporno and hundreds of intensely spiritual and enlightened people in my daily life.

I believe that in order to gain the full extent of the bliss and enjoyment that true enlightenment brings when it is present within us, we must realise that these things are not something we achieve once we reach a certain destination. Happiness, enlightenment, inner-peace, love for everyone even our enemies as Jesus taught and all of the wonderful things that people envy and often think are the divine rights of people who are spiritual masters, are really part of each and everyone one of us when we embrace them. The reason why any of us does not have what we truly desire out of ourselves, those around us and the lives we live, is purely because we don't truly want them fully because deep down we aren't prepared for them. The moment we allow ourselves to let go of those doubts about ourselves, are completely present and choose to allow ourselves to have everything we consciously want because we realise, "I am WORTH IT!" as my good friend likes to say and remind others to say, we suddenly become deserving of all those things and they are nearly instantaneously ours for the having.

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~ Rye

Rye Lee it sounds like you have had some pretty amazing experiences, I personally have never had any mentors other than my father and an uncle who i rarely see or speak to, so i kind of had to go through this massive journey just to be able to start to understand the real journey in life that i must embark on haha. It was around 2 years ago that I finally became present of the energy within myself, in others, in the entire universe, and how this energy is all essentially one, that it is all connected. This process started to occur in the first place because i began to realize the things that you spoke of, that happiness isnt something i could ever hope to find outside of myself, and that my internal state condoitions my external reality. There is one final thing that made it all work, however, and that is love. If I truly love myself, life, others, the universe, fucking everything, then that is the type of energy that will permeate through each moment of my life. If a bunch of bad shit starts to happen in my life it was because that is what I truly felt I deserved at that moment. If I let go of myself, and the little scared little boy that lives inside that continually wants gratification, and just focus on loving life without judgment, then I become free. I truly become empowered because I am no longer dependent on external pillars, the foundation for my reality is built within myself, and if i structure that foundation with love, then that is what I get in return. This stuff is bigger than women, and when you start to realize it, thats how you eradicate neediness haha, its like shit, there is so much more than little me and my little interactions. I am not even going to go further into how this stuff translates into success with women, but I think everybody needs to start loving themselves and others without expectation. We would all be a lot happier, less anxious, afraid. Not feeling love to the core of my being is the quickest way to ensure I do not have loving relationships in my life. Women can instantaneously sense if I am flowing outward with positive energy or if i am a black hole, looking for something outside of myself in order to feel good. Lets just say they run if im a black hole haha.

-Lucius

"You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve love and affection"
- Gandhi

ya thats right i drop Gandhi quotes, hard as fuck

right on

everything comes so much easier when you learn to let go and accept everything. not being burdened by the things that don't really even matter.

you eventually realize that our brains are very automatic and habitual thoughts are comforting. but it's nice to step outside of the monotony and even catch a glimpse of the that thing.. that is so close yet so far away


i am wondering if buddhist monks and such are on such a different level that they feel like they are in a lucid dream. the being said, i absolutely love habanero peppers.

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Monks are definitely operating within a different plane of existence, they spend most of their time meditating, so everything that they experience is like an extended meditation. The lucid dream explanation is actually pretty accurate, they have so much power over their reality it is ridiculous, i lived with some Vaishnava monks for a few months and it was an incredible experience, thats what really took my "game" to the next level.

-Lucius

keepin it buddhist ya herd, we still ballin haha