im going to get this girl to hangout with me tonight, i just need some ideas where to go and chill we are just hanging out but i want to k-close her. please help thanks

Things I got : You're too eager and you're thinking of kissing her already. Not good. A kiss has to be spontaneous or just felt in the moment. You can't plan one. Now, take her to a regular bar but with just the right amount of privacy.

Things I didn't get : You didn't talk about her at all. Is she into you? Is she open to kissing? Have you got the signals?

Who knows?

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thanks for the post im 19 btw cant go to the bars and i work with her i can see it, yea i know dont get with anyone at work but shes going back to college in about a month

Take her somewhere fun then. The arcade? Mini-golf? And then, go for a walk after having some dinner. That should be an opportunity to kiss her there.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

would you say the mall and a then a movie can be god too?

I don't think she'd appreciate hanging out at mall. Unless you have given her a Bill Gates limit credit card.

Just take her to an arcade. The potential in those kid games like bumping cars and shooting cans or even bowling is unbelievable. Make her associate having fun with time spent with you.

Movies are too cliched and no one goes there on dates unless you plan on making out all the time in the dark. Don't think you have managed that level of comfort with her yet. So NO to the theatre.

Set yourself apart from the same old, same old routines which she's gone through enough times with enough guys.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "