So I know this girl back from high school. We kept in touched, saw each other on holidays (I go to school far away). I always thought she liked me, and so I began practicing my pua skills on her but when I start making a move on her, she started to distance herself.

Does she think of me as just a close friend? We had a quick text earlier. I was going to be back in town and she said she would be at this bar on Saturday night. So I asked if she wanted to see me, she replied if you want.

At this point I don't know how to respond to her.


*I wrote, who are you going with? And she said a friend. Then I said I will decide on Saturday.

Can someone tell me what I should I said?

Well, if she indeed does distance herself every single time you make a move on her, it's a signal that she's not receptive to your actions.

Freeze her out. Don't hang out, call or text her for a while.

And go see other women. There's plenty on this planet for everyone.

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two things,
1) need more details on the moves you made, you could possibly just be escalating to fast for her at once, (but more likely what you describe is a sign of dis-interest)
2)I would like the text log, you seek approval from her, it is only natural she wants you to lead, it is never IF YOU WANT, it is allways I WANT, you make the descissions and leave her free from responsiblity

it would also be useful to know how long exactly you have both known each other for, how much time you spend together on a regular basis, and verbally if you flirt, or if you have ever verbally indicated any interest in her, and if she has reciprocated any verbal interest, or for that matter if she is even comfortable talking about sex with you

SHE`S INTO YOU! Without a doubt (well as best as I can guess over the internet) lol

The `if you want` statement is to see where you`re at in the relationship (how much you like her) I`m guessing since you`ve got into the `game`, now you`re much cooler, but still not congruent with all of your actions. She probably sees the changes, but has some reservations because she doesn`t want a hump and dump, and maybe you don`t have the skills to garner enough attraction to seduce her (go against her logic)

So, I`d say drop the too cool for school act, and play her a little softer than your normal M.O. Who knows, you may even get the girl. Drop some statements of interest. Let her know how you feel (within reason) and I`m sure you`ll be in the clear.

Good Luck

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