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| Salmon Noodles | PostPosted: Sat Jul 23, 2011 11:43 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2011 11:35 pm Posts: 1 | | Hey guys, this is my first post here. I am posting here because I found this forum through google and well there's pretty much been this girl I've been really interested in for whatsoever reason, which I am not quite so sure about myself but this is probably been my first approach on a girl I like since my ex asked me out. I'm at my last year of high school and well the school year is almost over for me and I'm just not sure how to have a proper conversation with her and I'm not sure if she is interested in me.
Well basically this girl is in one of my classes and well I never took attention to me but recently I have been noticing her more often and I don't want to say I like her or I have a crush due to the fact that I barely know her but for the past two months I have walked up to her in my study periods and sat next to her about 5 times and initiated a conversation with her for about 3 minutes each time and 50 minutes of silence.
I am not quite sure about the IOI's and such because I am only just starting out reading these details on google and well some possible IOI's I may have noticed includes: she is always smiling hen I'm talking to her and when I see her in the hallway at times, I have overheard one of her friends talking about me with her about my english oral which I did in class(this is one of her friends outside my english class well this may not be because she was interested in me but rather I did a pretty damn good oral and well her friend was talking about this when I was pretty near them), there are also times here she holds eye contacts with me when I see her in the hallway, she points her leg at me when she crosses her leg(only when I sit next to her) and play with her hair a lot hen I sit next to her, caught her staring at me when I walked in the class once and she looked away the moment I noticed, she looks at me a lot when I'm talking to other people(when I'm sitting next to her and the conversation has nothing to do with her whatsoever) and lastly she only initiates conversations with me when she over hears me talking about english with one of my friends who is also her friend.
Well the thing is I'm not quite sure if these are IOI's or is she even directing it at me and all and what should I do to keep my confidence up and continue my conversations. I also freak out and look away at times when we reach eye contact in the hallway.
So yeh my questions are basically does she like me (I'm not confident if the IOI's were directed at me or if these IOI's are just her habits as I have noticed her touching her hair a lot in a test when I sat on the opposite side of the room to her, I was in a location directly facing toward her so I'm not sure if she noticed or not but yeh) and what should I do to try to keep the conversation flowing
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| pumpington | PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 11:11 am | |
Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am Posts: 3276 | | if she likes you, that i can not tell you, as it seems she does not know you, is she attracted to you, the answer to that question is most likely yes, go for it
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| Don Draper | PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:35 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 15, 2011 5:44 pm Posts: 1614 | | Well, you will never know how she feels unless you try. So, got take your shot.
As for conversation topics, just make her talk about herself and you'll be fine.
"So, tell me more about you."
Works well, if they are interested. _________________ " You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "
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