week 1: sit and talk to girl next me not into her thou

week 3 (still not into her): she sits next to a girl which is sitting next to me and i talk to both and during break i ask her to come with me to which she complies. Outside of class she tells me how i talk to every women lol (good sign?) now we walk around, i do light kino and she doesnt mind now after class i take her f.b and after a few mins, she takes my number :s never has this happened to me before.

We left class together and i ask her to get lunch with me she seemed kinda keen at first, but her friends wanted to see her and at one point i shake her hand and she said thats too formal. So, i grabbed her and say how about now? so we spoke for a while and i left.

why would she take my number? its been a week she didn't call

Now, i only got interested in her when i saw she has done some modelling.

girls are too afraid of rejection
your supposed to call her =p

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her not calling you is normal, girls don't like to lead, she will expect you to initiate everything,

next you need to see where you are at, your post really doesn't clarify much,

now, think of some qualitys you want in a girl besides nice ass, big tits, flat stomach, cute face,

ok now that you got some qualitys, i want you to think of things you do that embody that quality, next thing write down some lead in questions that allow you to demonstrate that quality and lead a person into answering if they also posses that quality,

for example, you want a girl who is a thrill seeker/adventurous,

start general convo, lead in with, ok , so last week was fucking sweet my friend and I went sky diving, IT WAS CRAZY, i felt so excited right before they pushed us out of the plane, it was such an adventure, do you ever do anything, that makes you feel excited like that? (she answers a few of these and elaborates, its a good sign) (if she doesn't answer and elaborate and just says no, or I DONNO, or is refusing to commit to giving up details you have some work to do, and you need to try to have more fun with her, so that she likes you as a person more, get her in a good mood and try some more) after she elaborates show some real interest in her (please make it romantic interest not just OH THATS COOL) so (she answers) oh wow your such a risk taker, that is such a hot quality in a girl, I guess now we can't hang out,

so with those questions you don't always have to lead in with I DID THIS, do you do this?, but that is one way, better to lead in with something then to just ask ARE YOU ADVENTUROUS?, and if you start by demonstrating you posses that quality and she elborates that she also posseses that quality you are both establishing commonalities at the same time as you qualify her,

so next thing is, she answers some of those questions you have a reason to like her, and she knows you have a reason because YOU TOLD HER YOU LIKE HER FOR THOSE REASONS, BASICLY, YOU BETTER HAVE FUCKING TOLD HER,

now you invite her out to do something fun, go look up a physical escalation ladder, now let me explain kino to you, you don't just touch a girls shoulder and back a bunch of times and she magically falls in love, that is retarded, think of overt touching (touching on purpose not by accident) as a way to guage where her physical comfort threashold is with you, you will escalate this threashold in linear incruments, the way it works, is you lead, then you resist, a girl will only do something if you do it 1st, make sense?, you give her a hug a few times, all of a sudden this girl is comfortable with hugs and will request them from you, you find her threashold, push it a bit further, then back off, she will be the one giving the kino, you will be resisting her, that is your goal, you escalate her, to show her it is ok, she gets comfortable, you escalate her further, she gets comfortable, and so on and so on, you give the kino then you take it away, MAKE SENSE?, 2 steps forward, 1 step back, over and over, BUT WHEN YOU TAKE THOSE TWO STEPS FORWARD SHE STAYS THERE, AND YOU STEP BACK, that is the purpose, not you being all creepy RUBBING HER BACK OVER AND OVER, thinking HEY IS SHE ATTRACTED YET? WE HAVENT MADE OUT, YOU ATTRACTED YET HUN?

anyways i digress, look up an escalation ladder, and make your goal escalate to kiss, you do this successfully, then the next time you hang out, ask her to your house to watch a movie, during this day your goal is escalate to sex,

now if you couldn't escalate to kiss, then just keep asking her out for more fun days, and keep trying, if she starts flaking, freeze her out for at least 2 weeks, give her little to no attention in class, talk to other girls,

even with this advice being given, i suggest you go around school, talk to as many girls as you can, in the next two weeks, make your goal to get 10 girls you think are hot into your phone, pay no one girl any special attention unless you have sex with her, after sex, do nice things for her, re-assure her that you like her and she made a good choice etc. rest is up to you to figure out,

GOOD LUCK, HAPPY BANGING

oh also, in closed systems (your real social circles) when your gaming your social proof in relation to a girls social proof is important, but try anyways, just trying alone will most likely raise your social proof and give you some buzz, if it is good or bad buzz doesn't matter, what matters is how you play it off, and continually increase the size of your social circle, girls quickly forgive and forget when you hang out with a fuck load of cool people

thanks alot for the reply pumpington really appreciate it i will prly escalate a bit and than see if im still interested in her and than takes thing from there and yes i have massive social prove in college

oh and if she wont call me then why take my number?? whats the point of taking a number and not calling it???

While this is a good post. That bit caught my attention.

While women nowadays don't want men to initiate "everything", there are still some things that are expected of men to do.

Take her number and call her.

Moving from point A to point B quickly is what will lead to anything, at all, with her or any other women.

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thanks draper but i still dont get why she would ask for my number when she wont even call :s

more then likely she was trying to show you that she liked you, to her that was probably obvious, to you how ever it is confusing, she probably was considering contacting you, but then realized NO I CAN'T, I WILL BE A SLUT IF I DO THAT