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PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:21 pm 
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I'm scared of public embarrassment from women rejecting me at the gym, although I have a decent physique so I shouldn't lack this much confidence, but I do.

How do you all hit on girls at the gym?


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:24 pm 
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Don't be afraid there's really nothing to it. Just go with direct or indirect or neg her for doing something wrong or using light weights basically anything.

By the way trust me if I say that no woman will reject you that hard during day game, if they are not into you they'll just talk to you to be kind and they'll make up an excuse not to give their number but there's no way they're gonna blow you out.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:32 pm 
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How is "how many how sets do you have?"

or

"Do you mind if I work in with you?"

leading to natural conversation like...

"Do you come here often?" I just recently joined this gym...


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 7:16 am 
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I can assume that you hang out in gyms and personal fitness centers a lot. The HB's you will ever meet in your life are also fitness buffs who go to the gym as often as you do. The only question is how to grab their attention while they are busy working out, attending yoga or pilates, and monitoring their progress on the treadmill. .


Be a "Spot-her" Spotter. When you see a woman who's having trouble with her routine and her personal trainer is not around, be a Good Samaritan and help her out. You probably won't be welcome to hit on her while she's finishing her workout, but you will be able to introduce yourself to her in a way that isn't awkward.



Get Her Schedule. You can guess her daily exercise routine just by observing what time she's around. Now, you need to do your workout a few hours before she comes in so you can help over easily when she's taking her break. There's no use busting your own routine just to pick up girls at the gym, they'll think you're only there to hit on girls..


Small talk. At the gym, you're sure to see her again after a few days or within the week, so you can't risk hitting on her too hard that she will ignore you the next time she sees you at the gym. When you can say hello to her and expect a smiling reply, you know you?re one step closer to discussing more personal things with her. Timing is the key.


Remember that you're both in that place for one primary purpose (working out), and your interaction must just cool and easy. But don't worry if you can't seem to close the deal at once. You're going to see her again because you share the same space, which means you have plenty of time to make your move after you've started talking to her..

Based on my own personal experience i did hit a lot of girls on the gym and they don't want to be bothered while doing work out, they gave me really bad IOD (indicator of disinterest) some woman may say to me like "fuck off asshole" or "Go bother someone else" ..


This is some good ways on how to hit a woman on the gym without coming of being distracting or annoying.. good luck and have fun at the gym!



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:57 am 
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haha, the most girls I game....are from the gym!!!!

I like the SPAM there, and I feel very comfortable at the gym. Less AFC or other agressive PUA's in the gym....it is a PUA-paradise.

I always start with a joke/neg, in stead of an indirect opener, but that's personal.

See below examples of neg openers:

- "hey, I can smell that you had a great work out :) "

- "you know, I have gained weight because of you! You always occupy the stations I want to use :) "

- [in group lessons and a girls stands in front of you. Hold her waist and say;] "Hey, you are blocking my view! I can't see the instructor!"

- [if you frequently see the same girl] "hey! it's you again! Don't you have a life? :) "


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"you know, I have gained weight because of you! You always occupy the stations I want to use Smile "



Hahah when i used that line the chick laughed and smiled and asked for my name.. brilliant!

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Get her a cup of water and tell her you thought she looked thirsty at which point you can:

-Drink the water yourself for comic effect

-Give the water to her and leave like it's not big deal to send mixed signals.

-Give her the water and start to game her at the risk of being AFC


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yoga class :D


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I'd love to sarge at the gym... but the gym is kinda sacred for me. No time to half-ass my workout to hit on some girls.

I also think being a good samaritan at the gym is annoying. I hate it when old fucks always want to correct my form or tell me the exercise Im doing is useless.

PERSONALLY, I like to talk to the front desk girls - but who doesnt?

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 7:35 am 
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I use this for girls I see around Uni, gym, clubs etc.
Only works if you've seen them before though.

"Hey, i've seen you around before. Why don't I know you? I'm ..... "
"Hey, i've seen you around, my name is... "
What ever, keep it fun, light, whatever.


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yoga class :D




That's where all the hotties and milf's combine lol

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I'd love to sarge at the gym... but the gym is kinda sacred for me. No time to half-ass my workout to hit on some girls.

I also think being a good samaritan at the gym is annoying. I hate it when old fucks always want to correct my form or tell me the exercise Im doing is useless.

PERSONALLY, I like to talk to the front desk girls - but who doesnt?



Me too man i'd like to focus more on getting a better body but somehow if you see a lady that you are attracted to just do a little small talk, she'll come back soon and it's more of a friend zone then attracted to each other..




yeah man annoying!, who are they to teach you? they aint even gym instructors lol..




Defenitely front desk girls but they got hit a lot already by your gym members etc.
i would rather go for the chicks who are in the gym, working out, doing yoga or pilates :D





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^I'm glad somebody shares my perspective
In college, I used to be more bold with gym "opening", I use that term loosely because I already knew most of these girls.

When it comes down to it, I'm no big juicehead, but I'm fit as hell. I used to compete in kickboxing and had I stayed in Japan and finished school there, I'd be pro now. I build a social circle every gym I go to, and I feel like I get to know everybody.

So when it comes down to it, I don't think you gotta "open" girls, but treat it like a club. You're there, it's your house, if anybody needs a spot they come to YOU, you know all the people and you're a mini-celebrity there. That's definitely gonna attract some girls.

(It also helps that I found my membership advisor on OkCupid LOLLLL)

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I'm looking forward to trying this one out...

""you know, I have gained weight because of you! You always occupy the stations I want to use Smile "

That sounds golden.


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