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PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:43 pm 
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Straight to the case: I live in a small/compact area where everyone knows everyone, in other words, when I F-close someone, the rest will know!

Does anyone know how I can avoid a "player" reputation? This will most likley come in the way of future games if I let this one grow!


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:48 pm 
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be discreet, dont fuck and tell, and expect the same from the girls you get with, and verbalize you want it that way


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If only it were that simple...

i.e. yesterday. I went with this one girl at a house party, we both agreed to keep shut about it, but someone most likley saw us sleeping in the same room, rumors will start and soon rumor becomes truth, no matter what happened...

Had the same with a girl earlier on, when I went to the next party that she also attended, everyone knew! I'm just hoping to avoid more situations like that!


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you can never truly eliminate it, only reduce and mitigate, discression, and LTR's are your best friends, sort of hard to be a player in a small town,


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Just Don't give a fuck what the hell do they care anyway, they are just bunch of people that just assume and doesn't even know the whole story.. get used to it!



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At the moment I want to mess around a bit (just got into pickup a month ago) and have fun! Saving the LTR for later, even though it might not be a bad idea to put myself in a better light through LTR's...


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Just Don't give a fuck what the hell do they care anyway, they are just bunch of people that just assume and doesn't even know the whole story.. get used to it!
The thing here is that I'm afraid it will mess up future games, I suppose it will be harder coming under their radar!


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Honestly if it was me I'd probably welcome the tag. Having a reputation as the town player essentially makes you a minor celebrity and gives you huge social proof.

I used to live in a small town and the guy known as the town player used to shag sooo mmaannnnyyy women. Girls used to just flock to him from all angles, he had so many he had to fend them off, literally. Everyone knew he was shagging half the town but he still was flooded with sexual offers from women. A new girl would come to town and it was a pretty good bet that he would've fucked her within the first month. And it wasn't just sluts he was banging either, even some of these girls considered totally untouchable he fucked at some stage.

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Just Don't give a fuck what the hell do they care anyway, they are just bunch of people that just assume and doesn't even know the whole story.. get used to it!
The thing here is that I'm afraid it will mess up future games, I suppose it will be harder coming under their radar!



I wouldn't worry if i were you, so many women hate me on the city where i live cause after i get what i want and didn't even bother calling them back before,they even made facebook accounts with some of my exes!.. just continue gaming the woman that you like. let them be!




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don't go to parties with them? hook up with them in discreet locations


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@Vicpark, I've never thought of it that way! This shit might actually be something worth aiming for! But how did the guy do in LTR's? Not planning on being a player forever ;)

@TheNatural, will try to care less, shouldn't be a problem tho, given what Vic said :)

@Hindu, that will not be an option, I really enjoy the company of that socail circle and love their parties!


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But how did the guy do in LTR's?
He didn't have any as long as I was there, didn't want one, so can't really help ya there. But he did have one girl who moved 4000km just to chase him for an LTR, she failed.

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Its good to be known as a player!
Thats right, I'm saying that it is GOOD to have a reputation with the ladies as a guy who picks up women.

Being known as a player/PUA has two advantages that I can think of off the top of my head.

For one, if your known as a player and you approach a girl who doesn't attempt to blow you out immediately then you know that shes down to fuck. Think about it: She knows your intentions are sexual and yet she keeps interacting with you. On some level she is okay with your intentions!

Secondly, having a player repetition will often times cause women to shit test you more. This is a good thing! In case you didn't know, every time you pass a shit test the women will become more attracted to you. So obviously, the more shit test, the quicker and the attraction is built.

As long as you follow the golden rule (leave them better off then you found them) then the player reputation will actually be of benefit to you.

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Do not verbalise your past experiences with women, if a woman asks you ignore it and pretend you did not hear (be non responsive) change the subject, if she still persues tell her to judge you for herself and not a nasty rumour shes heard in passing.


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Identify with it.

Become the `town player` I know from experience that you`ll establish yourself as the go to for sex, and guys will all boost your reputation.

In saying this, don`t promote yourself, but don`t fall short of ensuring your rep.

Have fun with it.

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