| during txting convos i often like to just say, IM NOT WEARING ANY PANTS!!
the follow up is that im wearing shorts,
here are a list of things you can do,
push pull statements and false disqualifiers (you should be able to improvise these on the spot its pretty easy),
(push pull)you're so adorable, its sickening
(false d/q)wow i would be trying to get with you so hard if you weren't (Xquality that can easily be fixed)
you can also use future fantasy projection, i like to do cheesy romantic, followed by sleezy sexual, then change subject before they can react,
ohhh girl i want to take you on a romantic date, we will take a walk on the beach and i can run my hand through your hair and we can just stare into each other's eyes until the sunset, OR I CAN JUST TAKE YOU IN THE BATHROOM AND FUCK YOU IN THE ASS!!, so have you seen the new transformers movie?
also you can randomly accuse them of hitting on you all the time, just try to redirect what they are saying as they are hitting on you,
also just randomly point things out and don't take the blame for it, place it on them, why do you have to dress so sexy, are you trying to pick me up? it won't work!! definately not!!(use a joking tone)
when you 1st introduce sexual frames, you can lead into them seriously through progressive escalation, or you can use humor to introduce them and then flip the frame gradually serious, an easy way to do it seriously, is talk about relationships, and gradually flip the frame sexual, but avoid at all costs talking about your own specific relationships, just relationships in general, she can talk specifics, but try to keep her away from negative relationships or if she has a boyfriend, keep her away from that topic as well, you can even introduce sex, and try to lower ASD at the same time by introducing the whole PLAYER VS SLUT double standard arguement, and how you think it is not fair, what if a girl just truely likes the guy, etc. and flip the frame more and more sexual, you can even lead in with sexual emotions, start by focusing on, something non sexual, steal the emotional connotation, re-itterate the emotion and flip sexual,
e.g. you know when your riding, a bike, and you feel super excited, that sort of how i feel, when im with a girl, you know not like, having sex, but yeah i guess actually i do feel that way when having sex blah blah blah, if you take the serious route it might be a good idea to keep control of the active frame and keep cutting threads and re-introducing them from sexual to non sexual to see how she reacts to sexual frames, if she reacts good you can push them further and verbally escalate faster, if she does not accept them, calibrate by going more verbally non-sexuall and more physically sexual with your physical escalations/compliance testing
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