Another one;
Fellows;

LMR, applied EXACT MYsterys tips;

At the end,,,we end up kissing, boob, dick robbing,...she said: I dont want to be easy, this is not the last time we meet, next time maybe,,,

Could I have fucked her?

Cheers

You are in a wrong section dude.

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

Thanks bro, greatest tip I ever heard on lmr!
What can I do about it? Its already posted here, so be good and write something I can use
Thanks anyways.

anything she does ignore logicly, just continue with the seduction and ignore all logical things and just agree and continue physically, next when you hear stop or don't or no, FREEZE OUT, and dooooooooo fucking not seem angry or like it is a reaction, this is not correct, you want to set a ahhh what a sweet guy vibe, and be like hey don't worry we don't have to do anything your not comfortable with lets just sit here and do this *insert non sexual activity here* she will want to make out cause she is horny, you only re-initiate if she passes the point your stuck at herself (you get stuck at bra tell her to take her bra off herself, stuck at pants tell her to take pants off, you get stuck at penatration, tell her let me inside you if you want to continue)

hope this helps

I'm with this guy, couldn't have said it better myself, too many guys mess up here with "but baby" "come on now" they need to know your there no matter what happens that night. sometimes a total freeze out and close the next day/meet. waiting one more day is better than loosing the game all together and wasting that time investment.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

ah SHIT. i just posted like the same question in sticking points (I've had it a few times now) and you have answered it perfectly thanks pumpington!

Great stuff man, thanks. I sort of did this. She sent me a text just when she left sayin she had a great time and we shoud do it again, experience says the chances are very good with the situation.

(The only new thing about the situation was her excuse: "I dont want to be easy and also my number has been going up"! But anyways, I think she is gonna break )

that is ASD in future you will notice this pattern, 2 main things not wanting to look/feel like a slut and they want it to be socially acceptable for them to sleep with you (what do friends think) the way i came up with handling this pattern, is before it happens i address it with conversation topics the cover PLAYERS VS SLUTS, STUPID DOUBLE STANDARD THAT I DON'T BELIEVE IN *you have to set a frame of non judgement*, during the whole pickup talk about sex openly but use discression never name drop, and when they fish for specifics no matter what do not submit, and absolutely tell them, that is personal and you will not be giving out specifics, *introduces frame of no social reprocussions for her actions*, always be the 1st to escalate *frame that it is your fault* but also for every escalation back down to a level below her and play the resistor (don't insult her or make her feel insecure for alowing things to escalate though this is incorrect, just allow her to escalate but keep trying to slow her down and make her consiously aware you are doing it) *frame of being a challenge*, win her friends over/be centre of attention/AMOG *frame of socially accepted man* (if everyone likes you, and she gets with you, by assosiation everyone likes her), if you can not frame socially accepted, this is fine, you just require isolation, and need to figure out a way to logistically seperate yourself from her social circles, discression is really important for this to work though

First of all; Yes! You could've F-Closed her!

I had a simillar situation yesterday, where she kept making up excuses why it was not a good idea (Basic defense mechanism). I pretty much ignored it and went back two steps everytime she did. And then escalated not too long after, back to where she rejected. She was OK with it the 2. time, everytime!

You have to remember to always be persistant, BUT! If she clearly says no, you stop ofcourse!

LMR Tip:

Next time your in bed with a girl and she wont go all the way, pull the covers over top of both of you covering the two of you up completely. Almost like your in a tent. make a fun and flirt comment about it...

"haha, look baby, its almost like were in a tent *wink*"

Then start making out and whatever. 9/10 it will lead to sex.

I'm not 100% sure why this works but I think its because its so simple and silly that when you do it, it takes her out of logic mode and back into emotional mode where she will let herself do what she wants... which is you.

So simple and so effective, its pretty amazing.

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