I feel that a lot of guys are insecure about their looks. Even when they learn the art of picking up women with their personality, they still bad about the way they look and I notice from time to time that it really can ruin your game if you feel insecure.

If you don't already know, LOOKS DON'T MEAN SHIT!

How do I know this? Well, I'm a very good looking guy myself. I've been blessed with great facial features and I work out a lot.

But why am I on this forum? Because there was a time when I couldn't even get a girl to kiss me, let alone getting laid!! When I went to clubs, girls always approach me because of my looks, but five minutes later, they make up some stupid excuse and LEAVE.

Or better yet, they start making out with my mate, who is a short and has an abnormally large nose! It wasn't until my friend gave me a book about picking up women, that I finally started having some success.

What have I learned?

Being good looking is absolutely no advantage for a guy!! Sure, women sometimes approach you instead of you approaching them (but not nearly often enough and I do prefer approaching myself), but it still takes a lot of skill to bring any of them home.

And don't think I don't feel approach anxiety either when a girl approaches me!

So, if you don't look like a model remember this: Thank god you are a MAN!

Don't people get banned for these kinda posts around here?

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i hope not, cuz i dont see nothing wrong with his post, he is only using his freedom of speech

I like your mindset

I love you dude! Your right it's a plus being handsome but it Doesn't really matter!
The key is not giving a shit about anything. Beyond confidence is not giving a shit and its magnetic at getting women!!

looks do matter, but if you got looks and no GAME! looks are irrelevant...If you got looks and game then you are the man!

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I guess looks matter about as much as how much money you've got.
Hahaha I'm handsome, got money and it's awesome I guess but I'd pick my game over that in a heartbeat.

Looks matter but they are not everything. To many people here don't seem to realize that looks entail more than what you look physically. It also entails what you are wearing, ie what clothes you have on, how you look in those clothes, how you act in those clothes etc.

I saw this firsthand a few weeks ago. I went to a club with a few friends - one of them is about 6'4, good shape, good looking, and makes fucking bank. He was getting approached constantly but didn't know how to move things forward and ended up going home alone.

Good looks are like scoring a Goal during the first few minutes of a football game.. it doesnt mean that you will win surely if you score a goal in the first five minutes, nor does it mean that you will lose if you dont score within the first five minutes..

but i believe looking at your "personal best" is important.

Mellowmarshal exactly... As mystry said: "looks can only take you so far" you need game..

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Kind of reminds me of my hot female friends that get dumped because they get super clingy and annoying. Looks are never 100% of the equation but they are a significant part.

Guys spend WAY too much focusing on themselves...anyone come to the realization that there are just some women out there with FUCKED priorities? Yeah, some girls wont give certain guys the time of day that dont meet their "standards". Fuck em. Some girls wont date a guy under 5'10. Some wont fuck a guy if his dick is under 7'. Why are we focusing so much on pleasing as many girls as possible when we simply cant?

Dress nice. Dont smell like shit. Learn to talk to girls. Try not to be so fucking bitter about life. Try to find girls that like you for you, they are out there. For every decent girl out there...there's roughly 5 superficial bitches that'll write you off for not meeting her perfect criteria.

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A fucking men. Hit the nail on the head with that one. It's nice to powerbang superficial bitches tho I must say cuz you can vent your anger thu your dick