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I have read a lot of 60's stuff mainly due to suggestions by posters on this forum, and so far I feel like it's just as confusing as it is helpful. He goes over the same things about 3 times in different chapters, and he doesn't go into detail with examples. He just states it, and explains why it works, but doesn't explain where to use, when to use it, how to use it, or which woman it will work on and which it wont. Just an example, his "milking the intro" idea that has gained much popularity around is literally not letting go of the handshake before the woman does. Uhm yeah, there are some woman who will be very creeped out by this (and he acknowledges this and says you have to risk it) and you will have to make up that lost ground from the get go).
Just my 2 cents.
He doesn't say, keep holding hands, he says: hold hands and then go into the IOM (It's on moment = hand caressing). He also states that holding hands is needy, which it is.
You could keep holding hands..... and then when things get awkward and she starts to act up, look at her like she's weird. (It's not needy, it's funny if you do it right). Or if she asks: "Can I have my hand back", tell her "No

" and smile. I've done this, it's fun, though going for the hand caressing is better for escalation.