Hey everyone, seeing how I am new to the seduction community I thought I start with a proper introduction, and some background information. I am 23 and live Chicago.

I really started studying seduction about a month ago, after I had to admit to myself that I have a real problem with women, that goes beyond what any of my friends can help.

My story is this, I've never kissed a girl, and the only woman I've ever been with I paid for (pretty much the lowest point of my life). After that whole experience, I pretty much lost interest in having any sort of sexual relationship with any girl for about 5 years, until about six months ago when I met a girl who rocked me to the core. I attempted to hook up with her, however, due to my lack of experience with women (a.k.a None.) I failed. Disgusted with myself, I looked up better skills with women, and pretty much found my way here. For the last month I've looked into a few different Gurus and found I actaully like Carlos Xuma, as I find his whole world view very inspirational. I also like Gambler as his story I can relate to.

Currently I'm doing currently doing Carlos' Inner Game program, as I think I just need a whole new attitude to life in general (not just to women).

My passions are: I love to cook and enter into cooking contest, and I enjoy dancing.

My goal for studying seduction is simple, I have no desire to sleep with a 100 women, or anything of that nature, I simply want to have a better social life, and be able to get into a relationship with a girl that I find attractive, (though I realize this might take some practice attempts).

Any suggestions you guys have I look forward to reading, and I am eager to start this whole learning process.