Hey I go to a lot of concerts and wanted to know are there any tips for sarging at a concert?

Thanks in Advance
-Acis

GREAT question. I have been stewing on this one for quite a bit. I'm not sure what sort of concerts you are referring to but I goto a lot of county fair-type concerts with cover bands. These shows get the ladies up front and dancing and usually you have no choice but to make physical contact with them.

Here are the tips I have found useful:
- Since the music is loud, non verbal communication is key. You have to look like you are having a great time and showing confident body language.

- If you want to talk to a lady, wait until she steps off the dance floor to get a drink and then approach. Women don't like being talked to if they are in a dance groove. And screaming/spitting into her ear is about as attractive as a an unkempt mullet.

- If you decide to join the "mosh pit" up front (which i recommend). I have found that some girls will just gravitate towards me. Probably because i'm a) having legitimate fun b) i can move/dance to the music in a non perv / non creepy manner. and c) I purposefully cause "incidental" contact to get their attention. Then before you know it, you are dancing with them.

- Gaggles of girls on dance floors (bachelorette parties, etc) are nightmare. These are more terrible than if they were just at a bar. Girls in sets of 2 or 3 are best.

- Girl(s) that have guys with them on the dance floor but seemingly no chemistry between them (little to no touching) are likely just friends and make for a good target. (I number closed 3 girls in this scenario; the key is to obviously at least try to include the guys in on whatever fun you are having, otherwise their will get possesive and the girl will get uncomfortable).

-Funny t-shirts work really well in these scenarios; much better than the bar scene. Anything you can wear as a conversation starter will help. (I wear my "Wingman" (top gun) t-shirt to an 80's cover band, etc. . . . something semi-relevant).

I feel i'm only 50% there at the most; i would love it if someone else had some extreme success in this area.

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