So everyone always says youl learn loads in field an be a better conversationalist.

But how can i be a better conversationalist when i just carnt remember hardly any of the conversations even after them i say to my wing i aint got a clue what we said.
It just doesnt stick will it stick subconsiously will speaking to good looking girls just naturally make me better with them.
Will getting rejected make me better with them even if we dont talk.
When im in set i have a hard time listing an talk a bit to fast will this go with time ??

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I do believe the more girls you talk to the more comfort you will build around them. Also Rejection for me just helps my game out soooo much better.

if ur using alcohol while pickin up women i suggest you stop.. the more you drink the sloppier your convo is AND the more you FORGET..

if you're not using alcohol and are just having trouble remembering what she says it's probably because you're concerened with what you are gonna say next. you are being the one forcing a conversation instead, go with the natural flow of conversation.

you say something
she says something
you expand on what she says, disagree, or ask a question
she says something
you naturally respond to whatever she says
flirt with her a little bit.. misinterpret (on purpose) wat she says
etc..

if you get stuck, think about this: comment on either something that she's doing, wearing, or saying.. that'll bring you back on track..

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yes your probaly right there mate im thinking what to say next hopefully it goes with experience because iv been really pushing myself these past 2days.

I quit drinking nightgame 5 week ago i hate the stuff i dont even enjoy the taste of beer i do get some people lookin at me like im a idiot but i prefere it so who cares.

When im in set with a girl i do pick up on some things i said let me guess your a model she said no im a advertiser i said what do you advertise she told me iv completely forgot what she said an i just changed subject

i try eject myself probally to protect my ego i dont push an hold in really annoying because i think the last 1 i may have been able to get a number flake which is progress

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Hey Baracuda,

I hear you, I eject too as soon as I run out of stuff to say. Because I am a n00b though.

2 days is nothing. You meed to be doing this for at least a month or more to truly get the hang of it. Put a qouta on yourself whether to sarge 5 days a week and approach 5 sets per sarge etc. You need to sarge even during the days that you dont want to. You need to approach even if you dont want to. Get a set of routine stacks to fall back on. Memorize it so you could revert back to it when you blank out.

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That shit happens a lot and it will happen again, when you go into set, you're probably so high on hormones, that the second after you eject you can't remember, how the girl even looked like, that happened to me and it's still happening sometimes.
Yes it will, here I'm gonna give you the best definition of pick-up that a lot of mPUAs won't tell you, cause they have their "pure" method gaming

PICK-UP: "Talking to girls, with a slight glance of calibration."

Cause think about it, what do you do, when you game? Well mainly you talk to girls, you're getting to know them and they are getting to know you. Of course you calibrate this talk with body language, sexual framing and most importantly not saying stupid shit
Well look back at those rejections, did you grew confidence, did you get at least little less affected after every approach and then blow off? I think you did.
Yes if you talk eventually you'll need to learn to listen to people, cause otherwise the informations you are given'll be useless and every conversation has some useless informations, just as every conversation has some useful informations. One thing that helped me listening and concentrate on conversation is training my memory, which has helped me also with other things in life.
I try to remember the details that I see on everyday items (cars plates, how many windows does building on the left has, what was written on the last concert poster I passed by... shit like that).
Now I'm not saying that you need to go out and remember every fucking thing you see (that's just what I do, more for entertainment and I see cops sooner from my car before they see me ), but you can do the most useful part of this.
Be observational with girls, remember what rings, necklace, dress they are wearing, in what tone they speak and soon enough you'll remember what they are saying.
BTW the great thing about this was that I became multitasking pretty quickly

I totally agree on that, if you go out to sarge, that's good, but it soon becomes and excuse when you don't go out to sarge, you see a hot girl and you don't approach, cause "you're not sarging" (been there). If you apply that, you can really save time to yourself.

Hope it helps

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