| So I had this talk today in the chatroom with Hobbit and Illogic, Hank and the others.
Real subject is not the issue in this topic but my point is:
We have a duty as community members towards our fellas.
Here comes the good part; if you are learning something, if you are applying some of the stuff that the forum/ chatroom/ member gave you, you should be aware that now its your duty to pass that knowledge to others.
A really important phrase came outta Hobbits keyboard this afternoon: something like that the guys from this forum come in here couse they are somehow damaged, and the ones that get through that simply go, leaving space for the new guys with issues.
My answer to this was that the repeated cicle was also a bitch; different users, same problems to solve.
So it is of my interest that with this topic we start something a bit different, a new way of helping others if you wanna. Im not inventing anything, Im just saying that we could give this a shot.
You see, when I started reading books and got asked around about my impressions on some situations, I loved the importance that I was given to when answering with my knowledge. I was cocky, I was begging for attention; I was right for all the wrong reasons.
You DO need to help the others, those who havent lived what you did, or know what you do; but you gotta do it as a forum partner.
I was using the word "principles" in that conversation I had, couse Im starting to think that, same way Style did with the "Leave her better than you found her", that there`s gotta be some principles to help each other out.
Yes, some are in higher level than others, hell yeah they might make you really crazy asking some silly shit, but thats no reason for leaving a man with no answer.
Now we all recommend books, there are some epic books out there, I know.
But this simple idea, and main reason I started this topic in the lifestyle section, is that we could start giving some lifestyle techniches in order to the new guys to understand what this is all about.
I think I can start now:
APPLY THE FEW THINGS YOU LEARNED BY BEING FEARLESS.
This is a tricky one; whenever I read something about PUA that blowed my mind all I could think about was: Dude, this is fucked up, there is NO WAY, I reapeat: NO FUCKING WAY I can pull this. Girls from my country simply wont fall for that shit, they are all into romance. Hell, whatever crappy argument my mind could come across with would do.
This is the first lifestyle changing advice that I think we should all apply: be fearless when using the very few techniches that youve learned.
Thanks for reading.
Bond.
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