hey everyone,

here's a quick rundown: i opened a set, attracted my target, & number closed. i did it very quickly w/out negging her & w/out building much comfort, but apparently, i did just enough to get her number. this was one of my first shots @ using PUA material, but as i got deeper into the routine, i reverted to an afc. this was over a week ago & she's already flaked on me once.

the hb just happens to work @ the same mall my sister does. later this week, i have to make a trip down there b/c i need to pick up some stuff fr. my sister after her shift.

here are my questions:
i) if the hb is working, should i drop by & chat?
ii) should i tell her beforehand that i'll be there & i'm dropping by?
iii) if i do decide to drop by & chat, what should i say?
iv) should i run a routine?
v) will it make me appear desperate/needy?

but then again, i do have a legitimate reason for being there. let me know your thoughts.

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Mr. Jones

What you should do is text her or something before you go to the mall and bring up nonchalantly that you'll be there to do whatever you'll be doing. Then just don't stop by to see her and go about your business. Even better would be to walk by her store or whatever without even glancing at it or in that direction. Just make it so basically you don't give a shit about her. It'll show you have a busy life and she's not very important in it, which will likely make her want what she can't have - an incredibly effective weapon

she already flaked on you before, that means you are not challenging enough for her at this moment.

'Suddenly' showing up at her work is very pushy/needy. Because you know she works there (she knows you are there on purpose, needy), and she can't leave the venue (she feels ackward, pushy).

Freeze her out for a while.....and game other girls

@ cahill4554

that sounds like solid gaming, thanks man.

@ anthonypham

i agree. i regret not making myself more of a challenge & building more comfort during the pick-up. something i'll keep note of next time i go sarging. & no worries man, i'm gaming other girls.

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Mr. Jones