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Women are basically, a very competitive species. Much, much more than us.
They laugh and smile in the company of their friends, but deep down they are always criticizing one thing or another even about their closest relationships.
Truth is, for a woman it is hard to accept and be at peace with the fact that there is a guy who they are with, and he has a higher social standing than her and is still being there with her.
They continuously have a need to rationalize our behavior. A woman will not be at peace unless she thinks she knows the reason behind even the smallest actions.
Also, they want to reduce us to their level because in their heads, equality is the basis of life. Maybe it's an overload of feminism. Maybe it isn't. Either way women want their partners, friends, fellow employees to all be on the same level as them.
When it isn't so, we have the inevitable criticism. A lot of "It's not a big deal" and "That's nothing special" and "A lot of people can do that/ have that" blah blah blah.
That's what I think. I may be wrong
aren't afc guys like this ?
Nothings about what you do anymore as much as it's "how" you do it. An afc does those things out of a place of desperation and neediness. They do it to make the women like them more. When I do it, it's because I want to see them thrive and become better.
An afc, will tell a women she's beautiful and so will I, however the reactions we get will be different, because it's coming from two different frames. Can a healthy relationship possibly exsist between two people constantly trying to reduce each other? Would you even tolerate that behavior from a women?
Be dominate, and control the direction of the relationship, or even the interaction. I'm sure if you started approaching old ladys they wouldn't be trying to reduce you, not because they're old; probably because you don't need anything from them. You realize that they need your help a lot more than you need theirs. See where I'm going?
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